Hooking a Girl Into Talking with You at the Opener

Starting a conversation with a girl gets easier when you can hook her right at the opener. Certain openers let you do this… as can sufficient attraction.

Hey guys, welcome back.

Today I’ll discuss a topic that is never over-discussed: hooking.

What is hooking? It is immersing the girl in the interaction. You start as a stranger approaching her and become a guy having a mutual exchange. I wouldn’t say it is “knowing” her, but you are moving closer to that point. You become a cool, interesting, and sexy guy who she is okay talking to, her peers are okay talking to, and who she pays attention to.

A successful hook gives you the feeling of being “in.”

I have written many posts about this subject. Some call it the “transition phase,” the phase after the opener when you move from breaking the ice to having a conversation. I prefer the word hooking.

There are several techniques to help you hook:

• Bait and subvert gambits
• Intrigue gambits
• Stories (interesting stories about you)
• Pacing (relaying info about her, women, or people’s realities)
• Catchy subjects (psychology, gossip, sociology, relationship talk)
• Teasing
• Assumptions (cold reads)
• Sex talk subjects (advanced)
• Certain group strategies

The list goes on. You have many options.