Today, we gather to discuss how to get a girl to give you a blowjob. Why? Because we have penises and most of us aren't contortionists.
Nah, but seriously, it can feel awkward to bring up the subject to a girl you just met, or even a girlfriend. So, do you ask her? Beg? Send her a letter written in blood, pleading for some sucky sucky?
Let's find out...
The experience you gain by going to different venues is invaluable, but it’s easy to freeze up socially in new environments. This is normal, but not untreatable.
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Hey, guys. Welcome back. Today, I’ll discuss club game issues that are relevant to everyone at any level. What do you do when you experience a “social” freeze-up at a club?
Sometimes guys freeze up when entering a club. They feel unable to approach women or groups. Their anxiety rises, and they start feeling anti-social, and not in the mood.
If you are experiencing this, you are likely entering what psychology calls “freeze mode.”
Guys freezing up will often rationalize that the venue is bad for hooking up and start seeing negativity everywhere:
The list goes on.
When you enter freeze mode, and you don’t feel social, you start seeing negativity everywhere. And most of the time, it’s just a bias created by your mood.
So let’s discuss what causes this mood and then discuss some solutions to help you successfully move forward in these situations.
Hey gents,
We re-launched the Girls Chase Boards a few days ago, and let me tell you, it's a happening place.
New functionality, a brand new look, and we're making this thing better than ever.
Among the new odds and ends:
Dating during the holidays is troublesome, but there are plenty of ho-ho-horny girls looking for a good stocking stuffer! Here’s how to add them to your naughty list.
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I. Dating Drawbacks in December
Dating in December is unique compared to other months, and this makes it a very interesting time for game, yet also tough. While a guy’s game and a girl’s attraction to sexy guys stay the same, fundamental human dynamics of mating don’t change.
But, given differences in availability, scheduling, and girls out searching for men, December is uniquely challenging. These odd challenges can present many new opportunities with girls quickly, just in time to close the year on a high note.
First, let’s look at the drawbacks of December versus other months, then examine what makes December very opportunistic and fun for the pleasure-seeking man and woman. Finally, we’ll go over what kind of game style makes the most sense in the holiday season, a unique time of the year.
Every time you tell a story or a joke, there are a few elements that go into it.
I talked about how to tell a story sometime back. I still haven't done my own guide on how to be funny yet, but we already have a trio fantastic guides from a few other Girls Chase contributors:
When you're telling a joke or a funny story, one of the most important parts is the punch line.
The punch line is where you wrap it all up and make this other person feel like the listening was worth it. If there's no punch line, or the punch line is weak, your listener will feel let down. If the punch line is good, your listener will be glad he listened.
The punch line is the most important part. If you have a good punch line, the rest of the joke or story will write itself. Because at that point, the rest of it is just the setup for the punch line you're about to deliver.
Looking for some sexy things to do with your girlfriend? These mind-bending, juice-inducing sex tips will ramp things up in bed and make sex with you an addiction.
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Today I’ll share a handful of sexual things to do with your girlfriend to make sex more fulfilling.
It’s not enough to learn how to approach, escalate, charm, and seduce women. You want to be a great lover and make their pussies quiver whenever they think of you. You want them addicted to you. And once they become addicted, they start to love you. Once a woman loves you, she’s yours forever (at least in heart, if not body).
Most guys are terrible lovers. They’re clueless. All they do is thrust and grunt from three positions and bust a load before she's fully stimulated.
It’s okay to be selfish in bed sometimes, because women are highly turned on by dominance. But for the most part, sex should be a creative experience, like putting on a magic show. So lean back, turn off your anime girlfriend simulators and allow me to teach you the ways of lovemanship.
Note, these aren’t only sexual things but also ways of being that make sex more satisfying for everyone involved.
I’ll separate this article into two sections: psychology and application.
On a recent article of mine, Sub-Zero comments to ask about what we might call 'game-life balance':
Hey Chase,
1. I was wondering with going out 3-4 times a week, how do we handle that if we work 9-5?
should we go to the club early and leave at like 1, instead of staying until close around 3ish during weekdays?
then you got to think, what if you take girls home? then who knows how long you'll be out and you'll have work in the morning.
how did you pull it off?
Women are attracted to money. Duh. But how does wealth impact your ability to get laid? In some ways, it helps, but it also comes with considerable drawbacks.
Hey, guys. Today I’ll share my experiences on a very opinionated topic: how money and wealth play into the mating game. Specifically, I’d like to discuss whether wealth plays a role in hooking up with women, or if it works against you.
I derive many details from my personal experiences and observations.
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In the end, I’ll make a normative moral statement, just an opinion that you are welcome to disagree with.
Before I begin, I must mention that wealth holds different values in different countries. It depends where you live, and can matter more in other areas. For example, in developing countries, wealth equals strength, which is attractive. In Scandinavian countries, wealth matters very little.
It is for these reasons that I have held back from writing such a post in the past. I was living in Scandinavia, and I had traveled a lot but not enough to make general, in-depth sociological observations.
I now live in Central Europe, more precisely, in Paris. Wealth matters much more here. Clubs are flashy, and Paris is known for its bourgeoisie. The high-end clubs here are truly HIGH END.
But does money matter? Yes, but when does it truly matter? And when does it work against you?
Let’s discuss this here.
And just FYI, I am not rich.
A woman’s decision to sleep with you is largely based on whether you give her a reason to screen you out. The solution? Stop making mistakes that get you screened out.
Men and women differ significantly in their mating strategies with how each screens the opposite sex. Men are direction oriented and look for women with the sexual qualities that they want in a woman. They have a knack for going after certain looks, features, or personality traits in a woman. Men screen for women who fit the bill.
A woman, on the other hand, operates quite differently and from the opposite angle. She looks for attractive men and evaluates if she should keep moving forward with a guy based on his behavior and presentation. Then she evaluates whether or not she wants that. So she’ll give him a chance until she is forced to screen him out. It’s usually a result of a mistake a guy makes that conflicts with her social frame, sexual desires, failure to interest her, or her biology.
The reason for this is because men primarily seek sex and women primarily seek relationships. Yet women live in a land of sexual abundance where they’ll always have men looking to have sex with them if they’re remotely attractive, but women find it tough to lock men into relationships because they can’t find one who is good enough and down for a relationship! This difference in nature is perplexing to a lot of men. I see this happen all the time. A guy sees progress with a woman and gets super excited about her and how far they’ve come along until she suddenly disappears, and the guy is left clueless wondering what happened.
Because of radically different mating agendas, men screen for women to add to their lives, but an attractive woman lives in sexual abundance and has many different men chasing after her, so she is forced to screen men out. Men’s sexual agenda is to mate with as many of the best girls as possible, whereas a woman’s goal is to find the best one and win him over for herself.
In the mating game, men screen women in, and women screen men out. And when guys make mistakes in the seduction, or they miss good opportunities, she no longer sees him as a contender for the best man, and he loses his shot.
Lots of factors can thwart your chances with women. These particular ones have a way of infecting you with long-term dry dick syndrome. And they’re not hard to fix.
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Like a pebble that causes an avalanche, the tiniest change in mindset or strategy can create such profoundly powerful results.
You may be struggling with your game, getting stuck in stage-two seduction, or just wondering why things aren’t clicking. Over my years of teaching, I’ve noticed that men have common, universal sticking points, or blind spots, that once isolated, can drastically improve success with women.
In today’s article, I’m going to share six areas where you can improve today.
