How do you change a girlfriend’s beliefs, and bring them inline with yours? By shifting her personal Overton window – to alter her ideological environment.
3. Get Her on Board w/ Reframes
4. “Well-Meaning but Misguided”
Commenting under a prior Tactics Tuesdays article on dismissing ideological fights you want no part of, Kaelos asked:
“How about in a long-term relationship with a woman, where you share similar beliefs/views but there are some mild to moderate differences on topics like feminism, frugality vs spending, child-rearing practices, small differences in religious beliefs, etc.
Is there a strategy to implement so that her beliefs/views more closely match your own well-researched beliefs/views over the long term?”
We’ve talked about behavior modification on Girls Chase plenty.
What about belief modification?
Well, yes. You can absolutely change someone’s beliefs... to an extent.
To do that, first, we’re going to focus on shifting a woman’s own personal Overton window.
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