Name a woman's behavior to alter it. Most people aren't conscious of what they're doing or why… when you make her conscious, you change her trajectory.
People do all sorts of things without being conscious they're doing them.
They engage in behaviors -- often behaviors they don't themselves feel good about -- driven by emotions they're barely aware of.
You, however, at the very least by reading this site, are a student of human behavior. You're more conscious of the things you do and why... and you are more conscious of what those around you do, and why.
And when you point out to someone what he is doing, and make him conscious of it, often that is going to affect whether and how much he continues to do that thing.
If what he's doing is something negative, that shows a trait like jealousy or insecurity, you pointing it out is going to tend to motivate him to assert control over that behavior.
You can use this 'behavior naming' with women to help nudge them into fixing or quitting bad behavior they engage in around you.