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Men’s Cold Weather Fashion: The A-to-Z Guide

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Darius Bright's picture

I got to say – I love spring and early autumn. This is the time when it’s really the easiest to look your best: guys with great physiques can still wear thin, tight jackets or coats over a tee to make sure they “put the goods on display”, while skinnier or chubbier guys can use colors and layers to visually compensate for what their physique is lacking.

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Some time ago I created a guide to dressing sexy in summer. Today, I’d like to do the same for colder weather – whether that’s late autumn or winter.

In this article we’ll cover the basics of how to dress in colder weather and look attractive and then go into specifics on what to look for in upper body wear, trousers, outerwear, accessories, and shoes to stay warm AND look attractive doing that.

One thing that’s important to remember before we begin is that we all have different tolerances for heat and cold – for someone who’s used to 20-30+ C warmth most of the year, even going as low as 0-10 C can feel stressful and they will be pulling out their sweaters and warm jackets, while I’m sure that most of you seen the joke that Canadians and Scandinavians only stop sunbathing at -10 C (I really hope it’s only a joke…).

Now let’s get going.

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Ned's picture

Hey Darius,

It's getting chilly here in Canada and I was starting to get worried about to what to wear to be warm and attractive without looking like the Michelin man or another fur-lined band-wagoner, so great timing with this post! I've been looking at a few jackets recently and had this in mind: http://shop.gydesupply.com/Calor-Jacket-Mens , it's not too fashionable and I don't know if it'll actually keep me that warm considering the high price. I ended up buying this yesterday: http://www.thebay.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/en/thebay/mens/mens-coat... , it looks much better than the picture and the fit really accentuates the ideal "V" physique, its decently warm as its 50% down, but it's not warm enough for Canadian Winter so I was thinking of coupling it with this underneath: https://www.jackthreads.com/ca/jackthreads/jackets--outerwear/puffer-jac... . Although, reading this article I'm having second thoughts on the puffer jacket I bought yesterday because you recommended against it. Considering I'm like 5'8, when I tried on peacoats (especially the longer ones) I felt like it made me look shorter, and also made me look a little to classy for my taste ( I have more a "badass" style".

What would you recommend I do, should I return the puffer jacket I bought yesterday, and purchase a peacoat instead? And, what do you think of the jackthreads down jacket? Is it good for a mid layer (in terms of style and functionality)? Also, what jacket is the guy in the second picture (under the last section, "How This All Comes Together") wearing?

Thanks again Darius!

-Ned

p.s. Your book is great by the way, everyone should have a copy!

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Darius Bright's picture

Hey Ned,

Yeah, I usually lag a bit with creating weather/occasion specific style guides so this time decided to do it before it gets freezing to give some time to prepare :)

Also it's great to hear that you enjoyed my book!

Now as for your questions:

Not a fan of the first example as for the one you bought - as mentioned in the article I generally try to avoid puffy jackets (especially with large pockets) but if it gets that cold that you're considering adding another one underneath you should probably stick with it. Coats are great but not for extreme cold temperatures.

Here we get ~-20 C (sometimes goes as low as ~-25-30) during the coldest months in winter and I find that Coat with inner-warmer layer + knitwear + tee/shirt underneath + thick scarf is enough to keep me comfortably warm.

The down jacket you shared would look pretty good as the top layer but I would not recommend it as second/middle layer: with a puffy jacket it will really make your upper body wide compared to your legs and there would be a slight clash in styles with a pea coat.

Have you tried using thicker wool knitwear as a second layer for the epic Canadian Winters? Could be combined with a flannel shirt for extra warmth :) And then of course any coat if you were to go in this direction would need to have its own warm inner layer.

And the jacket (you mean the black one, right?) is a variation of a "wool jacket" or "wool car jacket"

Hope this helps!

ThinkingEnigma's picture

Great article Darius! I'm definitely going to take your advice about the T-shirts. I've been looking for a way to utilize them during the winter instead of having a ton of them sitting in a drawer. You can't forget the henleys though! If you want to show off your physique in colder weather, they're a great way to stay warm with fewer layers.

I did have one question for you. In the last collage of photos you posted, what kind of jacket is the guy in the bottom right wearing and where could i find one? I really like the look (my outfits tend to skew darker and that would be a great piece to lighten things up without going into "nice guy" territory), but I couldn't find anything quite like it from a google search. It looks like it's some kind of wool, but it's too short to be a topcoat, and lacks the double breast of a peacoat. Does that style of jacket have a specific name?

-T

Anonymous's picture

Hey ThinkingEnigma, I'm not sure if it's definitely correct but I'd say you're most likely to find this online as a "Wool/Wool Blend Bomber Jacket" or a Wool Trucker/Lumber Jacket.

I bought a similar one myself a few years ago, found it again here: http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/MENS-DREAMWEAVER-WOOL-TRUCKER-LUMBER-JACKET-GINGHAM-CHECK-S-M-L-XL-/151773641703?var=&hash=item235669fbe7:m:m7dLXe923KHDmVROM6T_7LQ

It's obviously grey and black plaid instead of flat grey but pretty close! If you decide to get it you should know that its not particularly thick, so good for layering but not by itself, and the pockets on the upper exterior aren't really pockets, just flaps.

Otherwise I'd say look in up-market/high street fashion shops, you might get lucky!

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Darius Bright's picture

Glad you enjoyed it!

The naming gets kinda fuzzy with these styles, but you could try "wool car jacket", "wool car coat" (will generally be slightly longer but not topcoat long) and "wool short coat".

Anon, also included good options to look for.

As for where to get it - I'm actually not sure regarding the specific brand used in this example, there are some similar options on Amazon and other stores but can't say about their quality.

Anonymous's picture

Hey it would be really nice if you could do a post on music. Where the writers on this site could create a playlist. The playlist could include songs that would include seductive songs and motivational songs
Thanks

Metal's picture

Hi Darius.
Thank you again for a great article on outifts. I have one question left.
As i am a shorter guy. What kind of coat would you recommend ? Like in your five pictures above in the summary there are two shorter variations (second and forth picture) and there are longer variations. Would you recommend taking the long or the short one ? And if you recommend the longer version - how do you find out the right length for a coat ?

Thanks in advance.

Keep the good work going !

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Darius Bright's picture

Hey Metal,

Definitely stick with with shorter designs - anything that significantly covers your legs will make you legs appear disproportionately short and make you look shorter overall in turn.

Medium length is best for guys who are average or above average in height.

Anonymous's picture

Hey Darius,

In the picture with the boots, the second picture in the middle shows some perforated brown boots. I own a pair like that but they aren't boots, they're shoes. I don't live in a place that snows, so what do you think of shoes that have that pattern? What kind of jeans would I pair shoes like that with (the same color as you have in the photo) and what color shirt and belt? Would you even recommend shoes like that if they're not boots and are shoes instead?

Thanks,
Joe

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Darius Bright's picture

Hey Joe,

I think you mean brogue shoes and yeah, it's a good looking option if it doesn't get cold enough to the point where you need a warmer alternative.

You have two main options where to take it from there: a smart/sharp look or an elegant-edgy outfit.

If I understood you correctly, you have brown brogue shoes (similar color as in the example) so you can either go with black jeans for a more elegant-edgy combo or blue jeans for a more toned down version that's suitable for day time.

Color of the shirt - avoid red (doesn't look that great with brown) but other than that whatever you prefer, I really like white shirts when wearing brown shoes/accessories.

As a rule of thumb, you usually want to match shoes with belt, stick with a slick, clean design.

And yeah, brogue shoes are a perfectly good looking option (though of course this depends on the actual style/design).

Anonymous's picture

One more thing, Darius. Are long coats ok for guys who are medium to short height? I mean a coat that comes to the knees?

Thanks,
Joe

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Darius Bright's picture

Average height should be the cut-off line for longer coats. Shorter guys by default should avoid any designs (whether that's a coat or jacket) that cover a significant portion of their legs.

Tennant's picture

Is there any way to prevent pants from giving the appearance of having wide hips? I have proportionate hips but when I wear pants they flare out and make them seem wide so if there is an answer to this problem id love to hear it - thank you

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Darius Bright's picture

Hey Tennant,

Sounds like a cut/sizing issue - what cuts are you currently wearing? Slim?

As for fit itself, when you're wearing jeans they should firmly mold around the buttocks, thighs. As a rule of thumb, it should be a bit difficult to put a wallet/phone into your back pocket so it doesn't just slide in.

Also might want to experiment with lower rise jeans.

Anonymous's picture

What do you think about pick up wearing a professional black or not necessarily black suit? Maybe it's quite a good trick without even putting much and much attention to much other details in appearance?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yPsVI16FrKE

and as far as topic winter topic is concerned... If you wear it in winter time, does it change anything in how girls see you compared with summer time when it's quite normal to be in that suit?

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Darius Bright's picture

The experiment is a bit unfair - in first example the guy's tee includes a fake beer gut and the rest of the outfit sucks completely too. So yeah, if your alternative is looking like a weirdo - sure, go for a suit.

But take a properly cut tee with the same graphic, build a playful-edgy outfit around and it will perform at least as well as the suit during day time and likely even better in some of the night game venues (student bars and alike).

Also, just picking up a suit doesn't mean that you suddenly have a free "go out of jail" card where you don't need to worry about colors, cuts, accessories - pick an ill-fitting suit in goofy colors and butt-ugly shoes and instead of smart you'll look like Dwight from "The Office" - not exactly an improvement over the nerdy look

Now, about wearing a suit in general I'd say it's all about congruence - if you're wearing a suit to work and during your lunch break decide to run some day game then sure, wear it when meeting women but dressing up just to walk around town and run same game sounds a bit try-hard and I've actually seen it back-fire pretty bad (seen a few young college guys trying to pull it off in a club in crappy, ill-fitting suits - had some good laughs).

Think of it this way - okay, you make the right first impression, you get her number, now what? Do you like the idea of wearing suits every time you meet her or do you have an alternative? Do you like the image of a man who dresses in a full suit when he's going for walk to run some game? How do you think this will fall into the lover-provider spectrum when combined with your personality and does this take you in the right direction based on your goals with women?

These are just some of the questions to consider when thinking how what you wear affects your personal brand and how you're perceived.

That said yes, suits (and dressing smart in general) is one of the easiest ways to look good because there are relatively few moving parts that you can screw up. But instead I'd like to encourage you to go through my past articles especially those with specific examples ("5 outfits for...", "6 outfits for...") - and see if maybe some of those suit your personality better than dressing up in a full suit and don't worry, they will perform at least just as well (in most cases better).

But let's say you actually enjoy "suiting up" and that's the image you want to go for, then when it comes to winter you will generally want to stick with thicker fabrics, less flashy colors compared to summer. In terms of perception nothing really changes, you will still look like a dressed up professional first, potential lover second.

Anonymous12377's picture

Are timberlands 6 inch a good choice? Thinking of getting a pair wheat or black colour?, to go with the style in the article..

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Darius Bright's picture

Hey Anon,

To be honest, Timberlands is one of my least favorite boots brands, they had a good run a few years ago but that's that. Simply put, they are just not very good looking.

I would recommend checking out Hudson boots https://www.hudsonshoes.com/au/h-mens/boots.html they have a lot of very good looking designs that would get complimented my women left and right.

EvanK's picture

Yeah, the video is very unbalanced. He even acts nerdier in the t-shirt/guy combo. It's a bad comparison.

Darius sums things up very well. This goes back to the James Bond syndrome I see with guys. The idea is, "Hey, if James Bond wears suits and gets laid, then I'll get laid if I mimic James Bond." This is wrong on so many levels. Fictional characters like Bond are written by men who want the guy to wear high end suits and they just write into the script/novel that he gets women. Women don't swoon over actors when they wear suits. It's usually when they wear muscle tees or are shirtless in some jeans.

Wearing a suit out to clubs can make you appear socially uncalibrated. When most guys are wearing the trendy stuff that Darius has posted, wearing a suit can make you look like a stiff with no idea how to appear in public.

I've also seen guys in suits getting the short end of the stick in bars and clubs when they show up to a venue having just gotten back from a formal event. The problem with this is that it makes the women they approach look underdressed in comparison, which makes them uncomfortable. Furthermore, it's not playful or edgy to wear a suit. It's about as corporate and 9-5 as you can get. And that looks pretty nerdy

I've noticed that ethnic men tend to do this a lot, like nice-guy-type Asians. No offense to Asians, that's just an example of ethnic men I see try to pull this off.

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