Want an easy way to get girls to come join you on an instant date or back home? This advanced invite works even if she’s on the fence.
One of my favorite invites is the “come join me” invite. It’s
flexible, fun... and surprisingly nuanced.
I actually spent years experimenting with this invite, with it often falling flat. It took me the longest time to pinpoint what the problem I was having was, too.
I’d chat with a girl, it’d go great, and then it’d be time to change venues or invite her home. And I’d say:
Me: Hey, I’m going to go [do whatever]. Come join me.
And the girl I was talking to would nearly always respond with:
Her: Thank you, but I think I’m going to just [go do whatever].
Occasionally I’d get a “yes” or a “yeah, okay, sure.” But most of the time she’d beg off.
And then one day I figured it out.
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