Want an easy way to get girls to come join you on an instant date or back home? This advanced invite works even if she’s on the fence.
One of my favorite invites is the “come join me” invite. It’s
flexible, fun... and surprisingly nuanced.
I actually spent years experimenting with this invite, with it often falling flat. It took me the longest time to pinpoint what the problem I was having was, too.
I’d chat with a girl, it’d go great, and then it’d be time to change venues or invite her home. And I’d say:
Me: Hey, I’m going to go [do whatever]. Come join me.
And the girl I was talking to would nearly always respond with:
Her: Thank you, but I think I’m going to just [go do whatever].
Occasionally I’d get a “yes” or a “yeah, okay, sure.” But most of the time she’d beg off.
And then one day I figured it out.
About the Author: Chase Amante
Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System.