Once you’ve made yourself an attractive man women want, the battle is half won. The next step: finding ways to lower your cost, to make it easy for women who want you.
Most of what men focus on when they think about doing better with women is what they have to offer women. They think about how they can sell themselves to women; what women have to gain from them. Their value. Being impressive, taking women on fun dates, getting muscular, showing off their successes, having cool stories to tell – all these are ways to better display what you have to offer to a woman.
Much of what we focus on on the attraction side for men at Girls Chase focuses on bolstering what you have to offer, too. With better fundamentals you become a man women are more and more interested in. And with better game you make it easier and easier to showcase your attractive sides and find ways to get girls to go come with you.
Yet there’s another side of the equation to any value offering. It is not just how valuable something is, but also what its costs are.
That’s ‘costs’ plural, because there are always multiple costs to anything you acquire or add to your life. Costs like:
Time: how much time does it take to get this thing?
Money: do you need to spend money to get it? If so, how much?
Image: are there costs to your image if you acquire this thing?
Motivation: do you have to exert willpower or fight inertia to get this thing?
Opportunity: by choosing this option, do you give up something else?
... and more.
When it comes to dating and seduction, every woman you meet faces these and other costs when she considers you.