The Benefits of Having Friends Who Are Girls

Looking for a surefire way to attract more women? Having trouble finding a good wingman? These and similar issues can be solved by having friends who are girls.

It’s always great going out with the homies, especially when you all have one thing in mind – getting mad pussy.

Sometimes, you might notice not everything is working in your favor, though. For example, maybe the wingman you need isn’t always around, or you might run into some friendly competition. Perhaps the guys you hang with aren’t even into pickup.

Securing a wingman to take one for the team when necessary can be challenging. Your boy might be in a relationship or is just not willing to handle the “bucket friend.”

On a further note, if there are more men than women in the club, it messes up my mood, probably because of the overwhelming, testosterone-saturated air. I can guarantee that four guys going for one girl is not an ideal situation – unless your goal is to get some popularity on Pornhub.

So, what can you do to combat these issues and obtain some valuable wingman-like support in your seduction efforts?

Here’s one solution: get yourself some friends who are girls!

If you lack male friends who can help, or even if you just want a general edge in getting girls, read on!

 

Girls Are Great at Picking Up Girls

Would you believe me if I told you girls pick up girls easier than guys do?

It’s a natural thing for females to bond quickly because they have more in common. For that reason, I try to keep strong, platonic relationships with girls. Let’s be honest – you’re not going to nail every girl you meet, but you might have a better chance with her friends.

Having women who enjoy being around you is a definite status-booster and helps to improve your character. Growing up with only my mother and sisters taught me that there’s a time to be rough and a time to be gentle, but you must choose those moments wisely.

If you spend a lot of time with your homies, take a hiatus to see how much of your behavior is “boys being boys.” I’m sure you’ll find some things you want to change. Do yourself a favor, keep a few beautiful women in your circle, and you’ll notice yourself changing for the better.

We’ve all met those girls who claim they have a better time around guys because girls cause too much drama or some other stigma. Maybe there is some truth to that, but either way, these are the type of women you should be surrounding yourself with.

They will look out for you whenever you ask, whether it’s fashion advice or general female advice. If you’re a shy person or your approach game isn’t that strong, take advantage of the chicks in your group. Point out your target and watch them work their magic. Of course, you’ll have to take over at some point, but at least now you have a better chance because your girl “friend” just put in a good word for you. Now you and the girl you’re after have one thing in common – a mutual friend.

Women who hang with men are more likable and seen as a valuable member of their social circle. Maybe you’ve noticed that women have an amazing gift for making almost any situation better. You could mess up an approach to the point where you walk away feeling like a total loser, but if you have an awesome girl around, she will find a way to get you another chance with that girl.

If you and your friends have some cool chicks in your crew, know that they can provide you all with many additional opportunities. It’s no secret that when girls see another good-looking girl socializing with you, they become more attracted to you. Surrounding yourself with what you want the most puts you in a state of equanimity. Talking to girls will become a simple task if you’re already hanging out with girls, because it becomes a part of your normal flow state.

 

Having Girl Friends Increases Your Value

Keep girls around you, and you’ll find more situations where you can get pussy. Sooner or later, you’ll start getting texts like “Bring girls!” or you'll hear “Where the chicks at?” You may not be banging any of them, but everyone else probably thinks you are.

That is something I learned in my early years of gaming. I found myself hooking up with girls from the same social circle. Sometimes they would tell each other; sometimes, they wouldn’t. Friends always talk amongst each other about their sexual experiences. And it’s a big part of woman culture.

When her girlfriends hear that you’ve been dropping some good dick off and you guys are just friends (or FBs), you’re likely to get some action from them as well, if you do things right. Try to think back to the girls you’ve smashed and afterwards noticed their friends giving you extra attention. That girl you were slaying had stories to tell – and you were the main character.

The best way to handle this is to play it cool and continue business as usual. What you were doing before is what got you laid. Also, you’ve made yourself visible to her friends – now you are on their radar. If you don’t give off the player vibe in this case, women will be more susceptible to your game.

 

Going from Friend Zone to Lover Is Rare – but It’s Possible

Another perk of surrounding yourself with women is the fact that at any moment, these girls who have been helping you get your dick wet might want a piece of you as well.

Just because you have many girls around who aren’t riding you doesn’t mean you’re in the friend zone – this is a negative mindset. It only means you have a lot of work to do. In most cases, being friend-zoned occurs when you’re affectionate from the beginning but didn't have sex before the attraction expiration date.

If romanticism drives your game, go for it, but try to add a spice of Casanova to the mix. It can be tricky if you’re not sure how to accentuate your intentions. Try keeping out of this zone by including sexual innuendos in your dialog; something like “If only I could find a girl who looks as good as you do.” It’s a nice compliment, but it also suggests more.

To stay away from this dilemma, I think it’s important to have tiers of affection for women.

For example, women in Tier 1 are cute, funny, but not nail-worthy, so you treat them with care like a brother would.

Tier 2 are usually friends of friends. You don’t want to be too aggressive, but after a drink or two, you start seeing a different side of them – like dat ass.

Tier 3 girls are the women you started going to the gym or changed your wardrobe for. These are your goals. Don’t think for one second that guys are the only ones prone to being friend-zoned. If you’re perfecting this craft of surrounding yourself with women, it is possible the women closest to you might develop feelings.

Should this happen, it’s important to keep the attention you give her to a minimum. Fill the context of your conversations with stories of other women or ask her about her sex life.

Sooner or later, you’ll find yourself hanging with women more often than your guy friends, and most onlookers will think you’re screwing at least one or two of these women. Even if you aren’t, it still looks like you are. The goal is to have the upper hand or, in plainer terms, fake it ‘til you make it. If she thinks you have hos, let her keep thinking that – she’ll start thinking about being your number-one.

When men use the romantic approach, women always have the upper hand because they know what you want. Convince her you can treat her better and for that to happen, she needs to step up. Like most women, she’ll crave your attention. If you’ve ever had a girl ask you “Oh, who’s that girl?” or “Oh, is that yo’ girlfriend?” most of the time, it’s because they’re interested in you. Now you’ve pinpointed a potential bang, and you won’t be lying when you say “Naw girl, just a friend.”

 

Get Your Girl Friends on Your Social Media

Instagram, Snapchat, and Facebook – they all have a way of indirectly involving you in other people’s lives, and the story feature is a great way of getting yourself noticed. Whenever one of your female friends with a high follower count is with you, ask them for a shout out on their story, and one of their cute friends is going to ask about you.

Now that’s some grade “A” preselection right there!

Instagram also has a great feature where you can hide certain people from watching your stories. I use this to my advantage. I’ll block three of the four girls I’m currently nailing and rotate them on my stories, accompanied by some pictures of my good girl “friends.” It’s a very simple and efficient way of attracting thots. Put up a cute pic and say something charming. They’ll feel appreciated and enjoy the attention.

The girls you’ve banged before will wonder if you’ve replaced them, the girls who want to bang you will get jealous, and if you’re good, maybe your old flings might try to slide into your DMs. At least, that’s what I’ve experienced. An ex blocked me on Instagram, but her friends still follow me. That means, technically, she’s still keeping tabs on me. I posted a picture of one of my FBs, and out of nowhere, I receive a follow request from – you guessed it – my ex.

Coincidence? I think not!

 

Recap

To recap, let's go over some of the key points. Remember, you’re not going to screw every girl who gives you a stiffy. You can try, but you could be using your time better by making meaningful relationships with hot females. Awaken the Hugh Hefner that lies dormant in you – glorified pimp or not.

Always keep in mind that lots of pretty girls mean more opportunities, more friends, and validation. Prioritize your relationships and don’t slip into the friend zone by being a gentle giant. Instead, control your environment and gain the upper hand by keeping your girl “friends” on edge with some sexual innuendos now and then.

More importantly, don’t underestimate the power of a good wing-woman. Girls know girls better than guys, so it only makes sense to have some cool girls in the crew.

Lastly, fellas, enjoy yourself. Not only will your game evolve, but you will also grow as a person.

Darwin