If you have one of these beliefs about women, it's holding you back... and you probably don't even realize it.
Each man sees the world in a different way.
Some of the differences between how one man sees the world and how the next one does are slight. Other differences, though, are extreme.
If a man holds the right beliefs, he unshackles himself to achieve success beyond his most fantastic hopes and dreams. If he holds beliefs that limit him though, he may stumble into great ravines on the road to wish fulfillment... or he may chain himself fast, so that he never starts on the road to fulfillment at all.
There are four types of limiting beliefs men hold:
Inaccessibility ("I can't get/have what I want")
Over-accessibility ("I can have that whenever I want")
Transience ("Once I have it, I'm destined to lose it")
Permanence ("Once I have it, or someone else does, it's forever")
Those beliefs boil down into two dimensions: one of accessibility, and the other of transience/permanence.
The most accurate belief sets abandoned these extremes. Men who succeed most stop thinking about the world in terms of the blacks and whites of beliefs like these, and view it as a vast world of gray -- a promising world of gray, with boundaries and limitations, but where most things are achievable, though not always easy.
Today we're going to talk about 12 common limiting beliefs men have about women and dating. Hang onto these beliefs, you'll make costly mistakes, or never get far with women at all. Wouldn't it be neat though, to be free of these beliefs -- and free to meet the women you want, date them how you want, and get success with them that seems out of reach to most other men?
The best way to overturn limiting beliefs is through action, because action is where you put your beliefs to the test -- and find out which hold up, and which do not. We'll talk about this below too.
We'll begin with one of the most common limiting beliefs: that girls like that are simply too hot for you.