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how to ask a girl out

Every guy's beaten himself up over how to ask out a girl he likes.

She's there, she looks great, you want to ask her out... so bad... but you just can't form the words. Or maybe even approach her in the first place.

Making the ask, as hard as it seems now, is, in fact, remarkably easy to do once you have a few simple tools to do it...

However, you can spend endless amounts of time stressed out over it when you don't.

So let's give you some AWESOME tips to making asking girls out SIMPLE.

Before we get to tips, a quick story.

When I was 14 years old, I asked a girl out for the first time.

I walked up to her in front of the whole school (her name was Sarah), and flat out asked her to go to the school dance at the end of the year with me.

She was the prettiest, most popular girl in school (not to mention head cheerleader), and she'd flirted with me and chased me hard for a year.

In fact, she'd asked me out about 6 months earlier (but I was too scared to say "yes")!

Yet by the time I finally asked her out, she'd given up on me -- the window had passed, and so had my shot with Sarah.

At the time I didn't know you only had a certain window of time to ask a girl out in... though I guessed something like that might be the case.

I soon found out it definitely was.

You only have a certain window of time to ask out a girl you like. Miss that window, and your chance with her drops to almost zero.

As you could've guess, Sarah said "no" to me, albeit in a very gracious way.

She told me she wanted "to be friends first", which I knew meant we weren't going to the dance together.

I never got a date with Sarah.

However, in the many years after, I eventually asked hundreds of girls out on dates. Some said no... but many more said yes.

And along the way, I've learned a thing or two about how to ask a girl out and get that "yes."

I've planned to write on how to ask girls out for a while now. However, a reader just wrote in asking about asking girls out specifically -- so, it's time to cover it. Our reader says:

“Man chase I really have been in a funk lately. I'm back in school and I feel like a social retard now lol! I need some advice, I really need help with asking girls out on dates and what that actually looks like you know? I'm reading your articles and a lot of it is making sense but closing the deal and getting dates is weird for me. I guess I really haven't actually asked a girl out on a proper date before my last GF I got with because I was able to escalate things with her fast.”

To answer our reader's question, I've put together this guide to asking women out.

This guide will teach you -- emphatically, unequivocally, and without fluff, huff, or pomp of any kind -- how to ask a girl out... and always (or almost always, anyway!) get a "yes."

Comments

Ronnie's picture

Hey Chase, There's this girl that I've been liking for the past 2 years. Last year she really used to like me, and I don't know why in the hell I didn't ask her out then. We stopped talking for a while but recently we started to talk to each other again. I'm pretty sure she still likes me. It's difficult for me to ask her out because it was such a long time that we didn't talk to each other at all. I don't want it to be awkward. Should I wait, or should I ask her out now?

Anonymous's picture

Hi Chase ,
Im a student in 8th grade .. (too young?) .. Im 13years
There is this girl who Started to become my friend a year ago and some months ago she started saying that im her bestest friend.. She started telling me everything about her life.. Big secrets and the guys she liked.. And i started to like her .. Then everyone in my class started to say that she really likes me and is interested in me.. I was a bit nervous on asking her out and i took too much time..... Then we started having a lot of fun together and like i became the only guy she kept talking to all the time .. I really started to like her and i was sure she liked me because she blushed and smiled and laughed everytime she talked to me..
She used to come to me saying dont be sad be happy talk to me .. 2 weeks ago when i made her decision while i was out of town that i was going to ask her out .. When i returned i got to know that one of my good friends asked her out and she first said a big no.. In front of everyone but the next day she went to him and said yes.. I felt really sad because i really really liked her .. She kept saying i was a hot guy and saying she loved me and i was really cute.. But she told me that she did notlike this guy who asked her out a bit before but now she loves him .. I still feel really sad and cant get over it .. And this guy he broke up with his ex in anout 5 days so i think he is a loser.. But they have started getting really close hugging each other sticking to each other and i am sad ..
I now really want this girl to be my gf .. Any tips ? Or any idea?
What should i do for the moment im really confused ..?

Waiting for your reply,
Thanks Chase

Anonymous's picture

hey bro (im not chase). I know how you feel, i was sorta in the same position as u a couple years back. In my opinion the best thing u can do is move on and dont get too close to the girl cuz that will greatly impact ure feelings. Just b yourself and if u get lucky her relationship wont last that long and u can finally ask her out. But in the time being, dont stress over it and dont tell her u love her because she most likely wont dump him for u and that will impact your friendship with her.
good luck

Anonymous's picture

hey chase i need some help i want to ask this girl out but i dont really know what to say exactly please help

Dave's picture

Hey Chase, I have a few questions for you. There is this girl who is on my bus and Math/L.A. class, and I just don't know how to confront her. She doesn't sit near me in any of these, but she does sit at a table in lunch with some of my friends. I don't know when or how to ask her, and I don't see any way to get her alone (should you ask her out alone?). I can't think of a way to smoothly ask her out, and I believe she knows I like her, which adds a whole new variable to this equation. Sometimes she looks at me, and I will catch her looking at me and/or vise versa. I feel she won't say yes if my peers are around, and my head is kinda everywhere. I feel a little belittled asking a person I have never met about personal problems, but I feel I need to. Also, do you think I should let my parents know, and either if she says yes or no. Please help me man.

~Dave

Anonymous's picture

The way you want to ask a girl out is the way YOU want to... My ex-Girlfreind always wanted a good person and to confront her when ever, except when they are talking with someone else. so my advise to you is to go for it if you want to do it then dont let anyone stop you!

Jason's picture

Hey Chase, been reading your articles for the past couple weeks really great stuff! Trying to make this short....

I know this girl for 2 years in college and she knows i like her, cause she over heard as my friend was bugging me about it on the bus. In June at graduation we chilled and that was it. Fast forward 6months this week i got a msg from her on fb stating she wanted some info regarding the uni i was going to. So I said hey why don't we discuss it over lunch or something or if not i can answer your questions on fb. She said let's go have lunch. So Last friday i was gonna tell her how i felt but i didn't, she looked interested, asking me questions, accepting my compliments, leaning forward and always had eye contact. Although for me i'm pretty shy..i didn't give much eye contact. I know her enough that she is a shy person as well. So at the end of it all she was like msg me sometime. So the next day i texted "i had enjoyed our outting and i maybe we can watch paranormal, after wards you will have to use your social work skills on me." She laughed and said ok. 3 days later i texted "hey let's go watch that movie, let me know what your schedule is like this week." She replied 5hrs later stating how she would be busy this week and weekend and that she doesn't know when she will have free time due to work and how she promised she would go with her friend to the movie. So i said, no problem just let me know when you are free. She didn't respond. Shortly after 1hr or so i texted her some thing funny and she laughed.

My theory is she just wants me to tell her how I feel and she was hoping that i would when we went to lunch but i didn't. So meaning she decided to give me another shot. So I'm deciding now to just lay it on the line and call her and tell her. If it goes well hurrah! If not I've learned! This will be the first time i've even told a girl how i feel. I don't have any experience at all. I'm 22 lols.

Looking forward to your response!

Anonymous's picture

Just be truthful it'll work out

Rich T's picture

Hey Chase,

Kudos on the great info. I've read just about every article over the past week.

I met this girl at the local bar. Went out and got her back to my house on the 1st date. We're on our way to 3rd and I break to hit the bathroom. Come back and she says she has to go. We kiss a bit more and I'm stroking her hair. She says "How do you not have a gf?" (Used the career/busy BF excluder earlier) I reiterate "Im not a relationship guy." Cab comes we kiss and she gives me a sexy lip bite at the end. I close the door and she walks to the cab.

Texted her 2 days later to get together again soon. No response now for days. What could I have done better?

Thanks,

Anonymous's picture

Generally, when you're looking for a relationship, you don't say you're not into relationships.

Simple.

Anonymous's picture

Hey Chase i'm thinking of asking this girl i like alot by Friday and i don't know but i get the biggest nervousness ever i'm more nervous than the basketball championships last year im in 8th grade and this girl is my best friend thats a girl and one of the first girls ive ever felt a connection with i want to invite her for me to come hang out with her in her neibhorhood do you think i should come to her or have her come to me. I don't want to screw up our friendship together this will be my first date ever if it happens. so any more tips to help :) thanks,

Travis

Anonymous's picture

Hello Chase,

So heres the deal. Theres this girl I really like and we have hooked up a couple of times. Shes beyond gorgeous and I would say im pretty good looking. But the issue here is were friends with benefits but im starting to like her more then that. I dont know if she likes me in that way and if I ask her out I dont know what she would say.

Theres also this other problem. I had a thing with her best friend but now she hates me and we dont talk very much. Our friendship is secret to her and if she found out we were friends, the girl I like would be in trouble with her. So i dont know if she would date me just because of that reason.

I was just wondering if you could give me some tips on what I should do.

Thank you very much.

P.S. My names Chase also :D

Connor 's picture

Hey chase!

I've been in the same situation as you. I met this girl and we hit it off great, talking all the time and always laughing. Hooked up a couple times, She had all the personality over text and phone calls but was a Tad shy in person. Anyways I asked her if she wanted to go on a picnic we had a good time and as the picnic ended I got up and we hooked up and I asked her out and she said hmm I'll text you later. She texted me a few hours later saying heey can we wait? I was just like yeahh Suree whatever's easier for you and we kept talking that night but I didn't give her much attention and she knew that so we finished talking that night and we haven't spoken since. I then moved on to her bestfriend a few months after and I asked her on a date and she was like sure can I bring Chloe.. And I was like hmm I'm not sure that's a good idea, anyways truth is Chloe fucked it up for me with the other chick. But I guess that was pretty stupid going after her bestfriend haha I hope this gave you and insight!

Cheers!

Dominic's picture

Hey Chase
Basically I know this girl from working together at a nightclub and she just left working there the other day. But this is cool as I wouldnt have asked her out if we were working together as that just dosnt work. We talked a lot and Im pretty sure she liked me as I could tell by the way she acted around me eg laughing at everything and constant smiles.
I then asked her for her BBM pin and got that so thats cool.
I havnt spoken to her since as only been two days but Im not sure how long to wait to ask her out and how to play it you know?
Kind Regards Dominik

Anonymous's picture

Hi I really like this girl but she's 16 and I'm 14 and I can't stop thinking That it would feel weird and awkward. I'm not sure if she likes me but if we make eye contact she either holds it or pulls away and out the corner of my eye sometimes I see her staring at me she also flutters her eyes quite a bit at me only. BTW every think else you said helped me understand more thanks

Anonymous's picture

i met this girl at my work today and i helped her pick out some paint samples for her room. we talked a little and she smiled and laughed. and we had some things in common. i wasnt sure if it would be weird to ask her, her name and if she wanted to go out? i hope she comes back in the store so i can get a second chance.

Anonymous's picture

Hey Chase (or anyone who can help lol),

Good post, thanks for all the tips and time you put into it...I've got a situation that maybe you can provide some insight into. I've known this girl for about 2 years now, we started as just friends. Then we went out with some other friends and I started showing a pretty obvious sexual interest in her (in a joking kind of way so it wouldn't creep her out, but I was definitely serious lol). We ended up kissing that night, but nothing else happened. I saw her about a month and a half later and at the end of the night, right as I was about to leave, one of her friends (i'm friends with her too) said "hey, remember when you guys kissed? I want to see that again". We then made out and it was great. We were drunk both times we kissed though. So I asked her if she wanted to hang out and watch a movie a few days after that and she said she's busy this week but that she'd be free next week (it's final week). Does she like me? I guess it's kind of hard to tell since we were friends before all of this started, and because it was our other friend that brought the kissing up. I really like her and haven't really been able to stop thinking about her since we last kissed, but don't want to make our friendship awkward, or non-existent for that matter.

Thanks for any thoughts.

Anonymous's picture

Hey chase i know how to ask out a girl and all but what should you do when your on your first and so on dates im just wondering what you should tak to her about i mean asking out isnt hard what im worried about is what i should do or talk about with her thanks!

Chris's picture

Soz I'm not chase but u should try to comment on her clothes, hair, make her feel good about herself then talk about hobbies that she might like (this will get he talking and comfortable and help u get to know her) then u could talk about holidays funny event in life where u would like to go remembering to let her speak and try not to interupt her
Hope this helped

Abbas's picture

Hey Chase,
Ok so I really like this girl and i think she knows that, and i think she likes me because her friend told me. But i feel like ive messed it up, by texting her:
"I really like you, text me back when you get this", its been like a day and i usually get instant replies.
WHAT DO I DO!??!
Help me.

Anonymous's picture

Ok, Chase here is something I hope I can get some advise on. There is a girl that I have been thinking about asking out she is single so thats not the problem. She is a friend but also a customer of mine I run my own buisness doing Mobile Auto Repair thats how we met. I do value our friendship and customer relationship and I dont want to ruin that. Meaning if I ask her out and she were to say no I dont want her to feel unconfortable knowing how I feel and IF I were outside doing repairs on her cars. Like you say there is a small window and I definetly dont want to let it close. She has actually had personal conversations with me almost to the point where you can tell she is confortable talking to me about her life. We also joke around actually these are the things that attracted me to her now its just come down to asking her out.

Anonymous's picture

U know if I where u I'm not an expert at all but on what he was saying I'd go with. After u fixed her car and shes saying thanks and smiling I think that would be the best time :D

Anonymous's picture

Help I need some advice. Hey I am a type of guy that's not the finest definition of slim and I really like this quite popular and I'm not so popular and I've told her I like so I think I screwed up at minute one and I think she'll think I'm weird if I ask her out. Help I need some advice.

Anonymous's picture

i like this girl in my history class, and we talk once in a while and we stare at each other in class a lot. I don't know when to ask her out. i don't want to do it in front of the class and i rarely see her after that besides the hallways sometimes. i don't want to ruin my chances with her. Im also facing the same situation with another girl in my math class. Can you help me out

British Bulldog's picture

Brilliant article mate, quite coincidental and rather fortunate that I'm the exact age you were when making those mistakes, so I can benefit most from learning. Anyway, I digress, what's the window, both optimally and at the extreme, you can ask a girl out - I'm going to do it next time I meet her, however, crappy unpredictable British climate could hinder me, so with respect, this is sort of urgent.
Thanks.

Zariuq's picture

:O Why does hiking violate the 5 C's?

It is cheap (practically free), convenient (unless you live in the middle of a big city), you get to converse with her, you only run into other people occasionally, and you can take her to the trail ;)

... or is it bad for some other reason >_>?

JD's picture

I need some advice, i asked this girl out for some drinks and she agreed to meet me up at a bar. We had such a great time on our date. A week later i asked her if she wanted to go out for dinner but said she has to work but did not give me an alternative time to hang out. What should i do ?

Anonymous's picture

Hey, my girlfriend of several years was murdered a couple months ago and I don't know what to do. I love her very much and I feel dating again would be disrespectful to her memory, but at the same time I miss having that kind of relationship with another human being and getting through this is very hard alone. It tears me up inside but I am very very lonely and I think that having someone to be close to would be helpful.

Basically everyone in the area knows about what happened and it seems like it'd be wrong to hide information like this from someone I was potentially interested in in the first place. What do I do? I don't want to seem like a creepy, unloving or disrespectful person when approaching another woman and I feel like they would be off put by the fact that I am asking them out at a time like this in my life. On top of that I don't know what my friends and family would think.

Help?

Anonymous's picture

Ok, first let me say that it is horrible someone so close to you was murdered, and my heart goes out to you. But really, you cant live your whole life afraid of being with someone else. You should eventually find somebody you like, but keep your old GF's memory alive. You cant just be alone your whole life, man. Just let her go. I know it will be difficult, but please try.

JoeDoe's picture

Yeah I have a question for you. Why don't women ever have to go through the trouble of asking guys out? Doesn't seem fair...And is a bar a good date idea?I'm not talking about one of those crazy trucker bars in a dark part of the city or anything...

Kalib Steele's picture

So me and this girl are really close. I really like her and she really likes me. I asked her out in nov. and she said yes, and then changes her mind to no the next day. I didnt make a huge deal about it, and i accepted her choice, and we are still have feeling s for each other. Her previous boyfriend was a dick, and the relationship between them wasng all that great, so i think she is scared of being hurt again, in which I can understand. So a few months later, one of her friends told me that she really likes me, and wants to date me, she's just still scared. I was told that she really likes me, she just doesn't want to get into a relationship. I really love this girl, and i want to prove to her that, I'm not the dick that her ex was, and that im the best she's had yet....I'm not sure if its to late, and i just don't know what to do. PLEASE HELP ME...I don't want to watch her fade away, or get hurt by another guy again.

CalypsoDark's picture

Hey, Chase. What about if someone likes more than one or even mor than two girls? Do you have anything on how to decide which to ask out?

Turkey's picture

i'm not sure what to do now though. I told her that i'll wear a borat mankini and run down the road and she's like i'll kick u in the nuts (in a agressive playful way). I said alright then hows bout we go to the park one day. She replied yes. Would this mean that i'm good with her or she's waiting??? (she turned me down once telling me she's not sure if she's ready).

T.J.'s picture

What if I asked someone out and they said no. not because she didnt like me. becaus she already had a boyfriend. and that boyfriend was my best friend. its been over a year but whenever i think about asking her out again it seems so akward. HELP!

Anonymous's picture

I met this girl at a club, and we danced/made out the entire night. At the end she said she had a great time with me and gave me her #, and I'd like to see her again but don't know how to go about asking her out or if it was a one time thing...also where should I take her? I fail at getting girlfriends...but I always end up bringing a girl home from the bar, and I want more then just a sexual relationship.
Thanks

Austin's picture

The girl I like is the new girl at school and the term before she arrived i was the new guy at school. I have known her for about 3 months now and I have had a thing for her ever since I met her. So in other words the straight away rule does not apply for me and also she moves back to the other side of the country (where she came from) at the end of term 3 so i'm kinda on a time limit here no matter what, unless her family decides to stay. What should I do and is there any advice you have to convince her parents to stay here?

the M's picture

ok,
I totally get where you are coming form Chase with the first 3 tips, but I dont agree with the formal date thing you have to remember that women mature quicker and sometimes they do like formal dates to build up some sexual tension and work out if your a keeper.

and also what you were saying about- girl wouldnt want to go on a 'high energy date', women are all different, your right the majority would not want to go on those dates. But there are few that would love that kind of stuff and are just dying for someone to say 'hey, you want to come on a 30 metre absail down a waterfall next week?'

I do agree with a lot of things you have said but I have a question for you, if the roles were reversed, and a girl asks out a guy and he says no, would persistance work?

Also if you saw a girl you liked just walking in the street and didn't know them at all, how do you approch them and start talking to them?

The M

alexander's picture

Hey Chad,
I think your writing her was great but i have one question that hopfully some one will help me with. this girl i really like dosent dislike me does not espically like me either, but i want to ask her out. But i dont know how much she likes me when we sat together in class we really hit it off but know that we dont we hardley talk. i also dont hve any freinds on the inside so should i ask her our not.

Steve's picture

Very good article. I apriciate the good advice. I had a first date with a girl last night. I really like her. It would be great if someone could tell me ways to ask her if she liked the first date. I'd like to text her. Thanks :)

Austin's picture

Hey. It depends how old you are. If you are a kid 14-16 say something like "hey :) did you have fun last night?" refrain from using words like "u" instead of "you". If you are an adult say something like "hey doll, how are you? Hope you had as fun a time as I had" again, capitalize words like "I" instead of "i". It shows maturity.

Hsenn99's picture

The first girl I asked out said
"sorry, I got asked out yesterday"
I asked The second girl who had split up with her boyfriend 1 day ago said
"I'm not ready yet"
she said the same thing 10 days later when I asked her again.
I know the second girl is the right one for me, I want to ask again but what if she thinks im nagging her?
Ps thanks for the advice

chris's picture

I am a first time user but it seems like it should work I am going to try it soon ill let you says yes. Thanks for the advise I hope it works

Anonymous's picture

I like this girl and I like did things too show that I liked her and she texted me and asked me if I liked her and I didn't reply then she said cuz I don't like you so I never actually asked her out but now she kind of thinks I'm annoying. What should I do?

Anonymous's picture

Hey Chase (or any1 who can help ofc),
I have a rather large dilemna. There's this girl that I really like and we've known each other for quite a while; but we've only recently started getting on with each other. I'm really nervous and not quite sure how to actually ask her out :/ i'm just wondering what I should say to her. We have a few classes together but she's around her friends quite a lot, but I'd rather ask her out when it's just us two on our own. I only just started contemplating how to ask her out (on the flight back from a school trip we were on) which was yesterday. If some1 could tell me just what to say to her etc. and also the best time to talk to her would be great as well :)

Thanks anyway for the great advice.

Anonymous's picture

Is it bad to start liking someone else the day after you ask someone out?

heartbroken's picture

hey chase i've read your article and i fount it interesting and brilliant but i have a problem.
I met this girl through a friend and we spent the day together laughing and joking.
As soon as I relised I liked her, I asked her out and she said yes for the next two days it was going fine.
She then turned around to me and said "I would like to get to know you a bit more so do you want to be friends until then?" so i said sure I would like to get to know you some more as well.
After we had talked about that, she also turned around and said that she Felt guilty for saying yes because she wanted to get to know me first and that she wasn't ready for a relationship so I said yh i understand but i'll still care for you and be here for you.
so now i cant get her off my mind, im always thinking about her.
what do i do. can you help me?

Next Steps...'s picture

Hey guys/ Chase!. I will try and keep it as short as i can...need the next steps advise...

Girl i liked not known for 2 long. Got very close on a night out...things didn't happen left it at that....

Time went by still texting/talking anyways at the time she had another guy on the scene she had met away and i didnt want the hassle of playing myself with competition, seemed like to much of jump for myself.

Anyways a few weeks have gone by since.. were still chatting, get on great, i think there is no reason for me not to at least ask her out, at least then i will know where i stand after the intimate night and its confusion a while back.

I decide i will ask her out...were texting she says i cant tell if your serious (had a little joke around at work that day) I say i am would love to take her out. She says okay we'll go..id really like it. My response is Good! your schedules hectic with work etc how about tuesday evening? She says Yes, i say the venue one i know she mentioned a while back and would like to go, She says again yes sounds amazing. I say to her i will let her know the following day of the times etc.

The day goes by i let her know the times, she explains she does have work and will try to get out of it. I say no worries let me know. Day goes past she messages me saying bad news i have to work :( what u up 2 today?.. etc. I messaged saying no problem. Your schedules busy so name the date... and i say what im up 2 that day not asking back. Kept it short simple. That was a few days back haven't heard anything since, no texts on the night it would of been or contact to rearrange......so...

Should i throw another text out there like the ones you state.. ''Hey, Whats your plans for this weekend, we should go out on that date!. etc etc...

Or shall i just be patient and wait. When she agreed she seemed very keen. So i am assuming she really did have work and couldn't get out of it. However i don't want to throw another text out there when i havent heard from her since and seem like im chasing...then again i don't want to sit back if i should be!!

The next steps would be of GREAT help.

Thanks a lot people!

Jacob's picture

Hey man, i really do like this girl and im thinking she likes me too, the thing is, im just to scared to walk up to her and actually talk with her face to face. Do you think she knows im scared? And if so is that bad? I have had my bestfriend play the middle man and give her messages, you know, the back n' forth thing and im thinking its a "turn off". So what do i do about this kind of situation?

Anonymous's picture

well i met this chick in dunkin doughnuts getting my usual coffee, we hit it off pretty well and started doing little flirts back and forth, and i pay and left next day i return and she is there and recognizes me and smiles really big and we flirt again, well this happens for a couple days and then i finally ask her out and she asks "where would we go" i said "hmm we will have to see" she says ok sounds good smiling big a bright eyed, then she says "hold on let me give you my number" right as i was about to ask for it, then she gives it to me and says ohh wait want a free treat and i say yeah cool and she hands me a brown bag with a heart doughnut in it, and i pay for my coffee and we both smiled at eachother and i walked away, later that day i texted the number saying hey its that coffee guy just letting you know this is my number, she replies "hey, hows it going?,sorry if this is straight forward but i have a boyfriend, just wanted to let you know." and i replied "ah ok. glad you told me!, to bad tho. and that was it..

why did she do all these things, give all the signs and even go further with the heart doughnut if she had a BF and i made it clear i liked her??? i cant spot if she just wants me to chase her or if that was like a complete STOP gesture........

Anonymous's picture

There is a girl i met through my brothers female friends. Shes was always very attractive from day one but she had a bf. Never really had much opportunity to get to know her until in the last year so was talking to her a few times and she seems really nice. We share music in common. Before christams she broke up with her bf and there was a few guys trying and I think shes rather clever which i like because she seen through one guy who was a player.

Anyways met up with her and her friends with brother and on 3 different ocassions she has asked if i had a gf at begining i had an online thing but that died off. so i said no to last 2. Anywasys i randomly got added after a night out as a friend on facebook which was a nice and her friend liked it. So then i got talking to her about this and that. I know her but not that well.

Me-Merry Christmas, Hope its a good one and your dad is getting better
Her-Thanks Hun happy Xmas to u too all is ok here hopefully see u out again soon xx

So then i seen she was going to a group of muscians I have wanted to go to for ages so i bought some tickets for myself. Asked her about the group and how it was ran and if shed been before.

me-I have my tickets lol I can't wait eighter love there music and the olympia is supposed to be a very good venu
her-Ah Savage might see u there. I'm on the very top though unreserved seating but I'll be standing:) will be there very early. Who u going with?

I went on my own and it was great. Didn't have her number so didnt know if id bump into her or not. Happened to log on to facebook and she had asked if i was there. So answered and asked what she thought. Got no reply though nothing of it really and went home.So theres another music event on i said id ask if she was going.

Me- "U going to this event" with a link
Her- Ooooh sounds good yeah I'll try I had such a great time but my phone died last night so couldn't find u:( (At concert)

Question is what do i do i like this girl a lot

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