You can learn to read women's signals far more reliably, and shorten your seduction learning curve, if you first learn a simple little trick: how to predict with accuracy.
At the carnival, there is often a man (called, like all carnival workers, a 'carny') who will offer to guess your weight or age.
Sometimes carnies use trickery. For example, one might offer to guess your birth month, then write down something like the scribble on the right. That, of course, could be said to say January... or June... or July. If you say your birth month is any month other than October, the carny will have 'guessed' within two months of your actual birth month, and keeps your $2.
However, not all carnival guessing games use tricks. Some actually do rely on skill.
What is the skill involved in guessing someone's age or weight?
While there's no skill I know of to accurately guess someone's birth month, you can get scarily good at guessing weight very quickly... and guessing birth year (not month) is not nearly as hard as you'd think.
In fact, over the years I've developed the ability to guess women's ages with startling (even to me) precision. I am good enough at it that about 3 out of 4 times I guess the exact to-the-year age of whatever girl I am talking to, or am within a year of her calendar age, so long as she is somewhere between 18 and 36.
How do you develop this ability to accurately guess age or weight?
You do so by making predictions, and discovering if you are right.
You can make predictions about a whole lot more than just age and weight, too.
And the better you get at making various kinds of predictions, the more easily you will tend to discover things about whatever it is you've learned to predict.
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Contradictory?
Hey Chase, you have written before in your articles, confidence ebook, and also said in "One Date" that men who think they are going to get turned down by women tend to get that exact result and that their projection tends to become a self fulfilling prophecy. And that the opposite is also true for guys that expect to have smooth interactions with ladies.
I totally agree with how what your saying in this article would make infields more fun. But in the long run wouldn't expecting to be wrong result into this mindset becoming a self fulfilling prophecy? Hope you can help reconcile these seemingly contradictory concepts.
Heavy Ego depletion
Hello chase,
Hope you are doing fine with everything
I am writing to you to express my deep regret from a life full of deceits And unrealistic people
That i have endured for 24 years straight, I like your website and everything idea you present... but it’s just not fully applicable in my situation as I am Just leaving Iran I seriously Donno what’s happening here but it’s full chaos in terms of social life mostly every city.
doin my full best not to let myself and to some extent you down at least for the littles I’ve learned of you.
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