There's a movie out there, which I still have not watched, called The Tao of Steve.
In it, a schlubby, overweight kindergarten teacher beds scads of beautiful women by adhering to a 3-rule philosophy.
The movie itself isn't fiction.
It's based on a real-life schlubby kindergarten teacher named Duncan North who, just like the film's protagonist, lays women with the same three rules.
While I haven't seen the film, its 3-rule philosophy intrigued me when I read it.
I realized when I came across it, it was the same philosophy I followed as a middle school and high school student.
When I used it, I had all the prettiest girls in school -- from the super popular head cheerleaders to the slutty grungy punk girls -- chasing after me.
I gave the philosophy up when it stopped working for me in university. My school was too big, my opportunities to make this approach work too small, and I eventually shifted over to a much more active path in the pursuit and bedding of women.
But the Steve approach absolutely works, given the right conditions.
It makes women downright chase after you.
And if you know what you're doing with it, you can apply it in all kinds of situations.
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Approaching correctly
Hej chase
I have been reading your articles for quite some time. My biggest problem, is the worry to come across as too uncallibrated when approaching a girl directly. I therefore hesitate to approach girls in a bus, at a bus station (or whatever station), in the entrance hall of the library/university. I get the adequacy of going directly on the street. But at the places I've just mentioned, I suddenly freeze and don't approach at all. For instance, I enter a bus, see a beautiful woman (the seat next to her was even free) and have no idea how to approach her properly. Another example would be seeing a girl texting and staring at her phone in the entrance hall. How am I supposed to approach her? I also feel hesitation, because I appear very intimidating with my height (I'm 2,02m tall)
I don't care about the fact that other can see me. It's just that I want to approach correctly. As a result, I miss out a lot of opportunities.
Would be nice if you can help out.
Best regards
Dominik
Rap
Hey Chase,
You’ve mentioned rapp and beat-making a few times now, mastering the skill. If you were to break it down into fundamentals, much like with seduction, how would you go about that? I’ve been trying to develop my skills with that and beat-making using similar processss’ to your mastery article along with other resources.
Side thought, how did you deal with issues as a white guy in the scene, it seems like you surpassed them at least in some sense!
Cheers,
Kilyan
When women chase
As far as chasing goes I have noticed 2 patterns:
1. Women either chase right away
2. Or, if you make her chase after a while, it usually doesn't lead to anything
The 1st point is obvious. The 2nd is tricky. I have retreded and made women chase me but it almost never went anywhere because it was a game of power. If I pulled away and she chased, I had to give her something back in order to get to see her but then she pulled away. So it never went anywhere, because the wanted to win this game, as it seemed, nothing else. I don't know man, I think if a woman doesn't chase right from the start, she will never submit to you at all. It's like you create fake attraction, but not real attraction
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