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5 Ways Guys Blow the First Kiss (Plus How Not To)

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first kiss mistakesToday we're going to talk about how guys get the first kiss wrong.

We've had a slew of articles on Girls Chase about how to get the first kiss right.

It's a fairly long list:

  1. How to Kiss Her: kiss basics

  2. Manhandle Kisses: an aggressive, dominant kiss

  3. Can't-Miss Tips for Getting the First Kiss with a Girl: tips for the first kiss

  4. How to Kiss a Girl Like No One's Ever Kissed Her Before: step-by-step kiss guide

  5. How to Kiss Girls in Public and Have It Go Great: kissing girls in public

  6. How to Be a Good Kisser: 5 Steps to Confident Kissing: mindsets, techniques, and tactics for great kisses

  7. Tactics Tuesdays: How to Make Her Kiss You Back: getting her to kiss you back when you kiss

  8. The Kiss and Other Mouth Moves in Physical Escalation: using kisses to move the courtship forward

  9. Tactics Tuesdays: The 5-Second Kiss: kiss a girl five seconds after you first meet

  10. Tactics Tuesdays: Kisses for Good Behavior: reward her with a kiss

  11. 3 Legendary Movie Manhandle Kisses to Model Your Kisses After: examples of manhandle kisses in action, so you can see exactly what these look like

One subject we haven't delved into on kisses much though, is things to avoid doing with the kiss.

All those first kiss mistakes you can (and many guys do) make.

We've talked about some things to avoid here and there. But we haven't covered them all. And not all in the same place.

For this piece, I've compiled the top five ways guys blow the first kiss. They're all here in one place, for your easy perusal.

Note that I am going to leave out the most common way guys blow the first kiss, which is to not actually make the first kiss at all. Whether that is because they wait too long for the right moment, or they even feel the right moment but can't summon the courage to kiss, this is the most common way to blow it. However, we've addressed this mistake extensively in the other kiss articles (above). In this article I want to focus on things guys do wrong when they make the actual kiss (rather than wilt out of hesitation).

After we talk about each way to botch the kiss, of course, we'll talk about how to not blow these aspects of the kiss, too.

Here's the list of the top five biggest ways guys blow that first kiss (and how not to).

Chase AmanteAbout the Author: Chase Amante

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System.



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New article ideas.

Years ago you had an article just on using the line "Don't you just hate it when ..." and used at places like grocery stores.

Well I was thinking of 1, and to use on a cashier at a checkout line, stuff like "If you were my girlfriend, ..."

The ... for me would be "I would be so proud of you," "I'd make you a model, etc."


Anyways, I don't believe you have an article on this, but I was looking for ideas to do something in the presence of a woman that can really show good traits.

For example, suppose I arrive at a bus stop and I see beautiful lady, what could I do to really impress her? Well, if a man walks by, and he litters in front of me, I could get on his case and demand he picks up after him and throws to garbage can. You'd have to somewhat be a tough guy to do this, or a simpler method take out a dollar bill and offer it to him etc.

But that would be waiting for a situation. So the 1 I love to use, is garbage pick-up. In front of a woman, you look on the ground, pick-up the garbage, and throw it to a garbage can. (It's hard to want to do this when no attractive women is watching.). And I'm looking for situations that don't involve another person. Can you guys think of any other such examples. Thanks.


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