Girls will test men before opening up to sex. But just because she throws you tests early on doesn’t mean the whole seduction will be tedious. The opposite is also true.
Hey guys, and welcome back.
Today I want to cover a VERY COMMON bias that I see a lot of men fall for. It is also one that I have been prone to fall for myself.
One assumes that just because a girl seems difficult in one aspect, she is difficult in EVERY aspect.
This is not always the case. I will explain why and share some personal experiences.
You can see how this bias can have a detrimental effect on your success with women. You will drop women who could have been good mates because you wrongly perceived them as unattainable or too much work, when in fact, they weren’t.
This bias holds you back. But being aware of it will:
Make you aware that pickup and seduction is not always as hard as it seems, adding motivation and less frustration.
Embolden you to go for amazing women you would otherwise screen out.
Help you avoid demoralization during the pickup. By facing challenges, you do not get discouraged by assuming everything with this girl is hard.
Let me explain this bias, then share examples.