How to Attract a Social Proof Feeding Frenzy

Social proof is one of the most powerful seduction tools there is. Use it effectively and you can attract a frenzy of women salivating over your chum.

You’ve probably seen a feeding frenzy on one of those shark documentaries. But have you ever seen a feeding frenzy of social proof? If you’ve done enough game in bars, clubs, and parties, you’ll have experienced this – or at least witnessed it.

Contents

1. My Social Proof Awakening

2. “But I Don’t Play in a Band!”

3. Lean Back and Relish the Attention

4. Experience Teaches All

There’s a guy who all the women seem to be chasing. Babes are pawing at him for attention. They’re fighting for his time, competing with each other like cats around a milk bowl. This guy has his pick of all the women. It’s like he’s a celebrity.

How does this happen? How can you make it happen for you?

The answer is both incredibly simple and beautifully complex. But any man with enough ambition and work ethic can make it happen. The key is social proof and pre-selection.

Long before I became the international dating coach Tony D, I was a local musician in a small punk band. Back then, I was still shy, introverted, and damaged. I’d always loved women, but I just couldn’t approach them or keep them around.

My neediness, jealousy, and lack of game kept me from attracting the women of my dreams. Except for one huge advantage – I was the singer in a band.

It was a fateful day that I discovered the PUA community. I saw a documentary about pickup artists on TV (back when people watched TV) and was utterly fascinated. They taught me so many concepts like abundance mentality, be the prize, the three-second rule, push-pull, DHV stories, cold reading, kino, and so much more. But the one I could relate to my current experience was social proof. I decided to try it all out at my next gig. I wanted to believe.

Tony Depp

Author

Tony is one of the most veteran day game experts around. He began to pick up women in the mid-2000s, when he posted on the famed seduction forum mASF... alongside other old hands like Chase Amante and Alek Rolstad. Over the last 10 years Tony has coached hundreds of students to meet women during the day. He has two published books out on seduction: one on his journey, and one on doing awesome at day game.

Comments

Difficult to Pull

Posted by Damien1 (not verified) on Thursday, 11 October 2018

Hey Tony,

I like the article! I can fairly reliably pull this frenzy you call it off in environments where it's easy to socialize It's a great ego boost and I love the feeling, but I see one big downside with it that It's really hard to find the right moment to pull a girl when you do this. Yes you get all the attention and might be able to get some numbers but since you're so in the middle of everything I never have an idea how to go for the kill at the same time. Also if you happen to see the people again (let's say it's a big group of new people in town that gonna meet up again, you have to ignore some chicks and they will go into auto rejection at some point because you have only so much attention to give. I feel like it could be better to not always go for this frenzy. It's fun for sure but. I don't know how good in terms of result getting it is.