Following up on and complementing our post on how to be a good lover, I wanted to share this latest excerpt on the topic of sexual touch; namely, how to do it, when to do it, and where to do it.
For a guy getting started out, touching women sexually can be a big, unnerving deal. How should you touch her? Should you do it on your date? Wait until you've got her alone? Should you not do this at all until the two of you are already lovers? What's okay... and what isn't?
In today's excerpt from my eBook How to Make Girls Chase: Every Tactic and Technique You Need to Get the Girl(s) of Your Dreams, we take a close look at what sexual touch entails and how best to employ it to get the results with women you most want to get.
“You will almost always want to wait until you are in private before engaging in sexual touch. The sole exception is in rapid public seductions – such as on a dance floor, on a beach, or an airplane. In those circumstances, where you are progressing rapidly through the stages with a woman who is also interested and willing, you will get sexual quickly and possibly even become intimate in only a semi-private location. These are the exceptions, however, and you will normally be alone with a woman before beginning sexual touch. The danger of beginning sexual touch in public is higher than with romantic touch due to the nature of the touch.
Some types of sexual touch:
- Stroking. Caressing your hands up and down a woman’s body – whether her arms, her legs, her sides, her back, her face, her hair, or whatever else – are great to do in private, but best avoided in public. In private, this communicates affection and warmth. In public, it can be a little much, and risks looking possessive. However, if she’s doing it back to you, or started doing it first, then, a little bit is okay.
- Body kissing. Rather than kissing her lips, focus on her neck, jaw, earlobes, shoulders, chest, breasts, nipples, arms, hands, stomach, thighs, labia, and other parts of her body. This is extremely erotic to women – much more so than kissing on the lips.
- Rubbing and fingering her genitals. You will often start by rubbing the outside of her pants, before sliding your hand inside her pants and down her panties. Rub the outside of her vagina, focusing on the clitoris, before slipping your finger inside her to finger her. Once you have been fingering her for several minutes, her pants will come off very easily.
- Oral sex. Performing oral sex on her is a big turn on for a woman, and will prime her for full penetrative sex. Focus on stimulating the clitoris for maximum pleasure for your girl. She will also often be quite turned on performing oral sex on you.
Once you have run through the various kinds of sexual touch, you will have gotten intimate with your girl. Together with incidental, protective, and romantic touch, sexual touch completes the package for all the ways you should be touching the women you like.”
Sexual touch isn't just for creepy drunk guys at the bar - it's for every man who wants to move things from platonic to sexual with women. Think about it - a girl doesn't want to get sexual with a guy who doesn't strike her as sexual, does she?
This is one of the key ways that you can communicate to women that you are that sexual man they want. Use sexual touch to show that you're a strong, sexy man - and get women chasing you like you're giving out $100 clothing store gift cards for free.
And if you're ready to start getting sexual with the women you want, you'll want to grab a copy of my eBook. In it, an unbelievably comprehensive, 406-page how-to guidebook on picking up and getting together with girls, I break the process down step-by-step into the most minute details so you understand everything, and then I sum it all back up again in an easy-to-remember, easy-to-follow and dead simple to use process to get you getting wild success with the girls of your dreams today. If you haven't picked up your copy yet, you owe it to yourself to go here and download it right now:
See you later,
Chase
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