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Tactics Tuesdays: Orgasm Anchoring

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orgasm anchoring
You can train a woman to do and enjoy something – or to cut that something out – with a simple (but mighty) operant conditioning tactic called “orgasm anchoring.”

Have you got something you’d like a girl to do, but she isn’t that excited about? Anchor it with orgasms!

Or maybe there’s something she does, and you’d like her to cut it out? Anchor it with orgasms!

This article presumes you’re adept at making women climax from sexual intercourse already. And ideally, that you’re able to string together multiple vaginal orgasms in her. If you’re not yet, or you’ve got a girl who’s sexually closed off and hasn’t learned to cum yet (or to cum easily / multiple times in a row), give these two articles a gander:

Also, you should probably have a decent grasp of how anchoring works. I’ll give you a quick overview, but I suggest you check out my full article on it here:

That discussed, let’s talk about how to make women you’re seeing do what you’d like them to do... with orgasms.

Chase AmanteAbout the Author: Chase Amante

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his Mastery Package.



SZ's picture

1. Is there a specific reason why it's better to nut in a bitch, than on her body? I know it's a lot less messy. But does that make her attracted to you more if you do it in her mouth? I know you said it does with the vagina.

2. This girl gave me head fast with no hesitation, I think she wanted me to return the favor, so I fucked her made her cum for hours, I didn't cum at all. So we try to go again for round 2, she refused to give me head, so I was limp and nothing happened. Is there any reason or explanation?

I was thinking maybe I should tell her that that's the only way for me to get up, maybe that would work? Sometimes girls refuse to do it.

3. Another example, a girl was sucking my finger and refused to suck my dick, no matter how many times I told her to do that instead of my finger. What could I have done in that situation?

4. Is it wrong telling women you don't eat pussy? I was always told not to do that when I was younger, so it stuck with me, I also feel women try to make it seem like they want to have control over me if I do it when they ask. I don't do it for that reason, like they try to trade off head, no, I'm the one getting head, if I decide to eat pussy, I will. Anyway I never bring it up unless asked, and I refuse to when they ask me to or demand me to in order for sex or head from them. I feel it's more of a control thing, and they want to run and tell everyone I ate them out. I really don't eat pussy tho. Theres also times where I'll be in a group and they discuss this, I say I don't do it and they say I'm immature for that. Should I still stick to my guns? What should I say?

So what should I do about that whole situation ?

5. You can't be eating every girls pussy out there, how do you know if it's safe to eat? I'm talking about avoiding diseases and shit. And how many partners do you recommend to do it to? Like one out of every 5 lays?

Lawliet's picture

Hey Chase,

Thanks for another tactic tuesdays! I've been following these and they help a lot!

So escalation...
From what I've read on girls chase is if she's uncomfortable, scale down a level with your touch and then go back up after a while. This seems a bit vague to me.

A) What if she shys away from incidental touch or touching her hands when you emphasize a point for example?

Shy as in she gently touches you. For example, asking for touch compliance and she gently touches you (barely enough to comply) but she doesn't move away when you incidental touch. Even if she does, it's not an obvious and big movement away. She's nervous and you feel it.

B) And if she isn't even comfortable with incidental (level 1) stuff, what can you do? There's nothing to scale back to.

C) The idea of scaling back and then trying again later sounds ideal, but what exactly (can) happen in between attempts to escalate that builds more comfort in her with your touch and advances?

What would you do in these situations, Chase?


JustARandomThought's picture

Hey Chase could you possible do an article discussing whether men are disposable due to online services like Tinder & Co.? I mean when a man doesn't put out a good performance on date, a woman can just say "next!" and go on Tinder for more endless matches. I currently feel that way and I thought another perspective man bring some fresh air.

Edgy's picture

Hey Chase! Any perspectives on how reverse psychology ties in with seduction?

Chase Amante's picture


Splendid question!

Here's an article on it, hot off the presses:

Tactics Tuesdays: Fun Ways to Use Reverse Psychology


Edgy's picture

Hey Chase! When I read the 'bring the energy' article and the article on how to be smooth, I get
the impression that the former pushes for one to be vibrant and enthusiastic via gestures whereas the latter advocates for stoic calm personality. A good example of the former is Craig Ferguson and of the latter is James bond. Would u p'se help to clarify the pros and cons of each approach and when to use each.

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