How to Have Sex with African Women

African women Part of a seducer’s job is educating other seducers on the logistical requirements and challenges of a turf he is very familiar with. Today, that will be my job. As you well know, I am from Kenya, one of Africa’s elite nations that attracts thousands of foreign visitors every month.

Decade after decade, Africa has been with strange stereotypes of guys in traditional attire, hungry kids, lions everywhere, and no skyscrapers. All these are nothing but gross exaggerations. A lot of visitors actually get surprised when they get here.

Think of Africa as a good student. Great Western cultures, inventions, and mannerisms are replicated here. The continent as a whole is by no doubt a trusted tourist destination of the world. Apart from the thriving wildlife, searing weather, and super cool vacation spots, there’s a favorable business climate too. And to top it all off, the women are super attractive.

Philip Etemesi

Author

Philip Etemesi is a Kenyan national, journalist, film critic, romance author, and student of Girls Chase. Now married, while writing for Girls Chase he wrote about dating from an African perspective, and discussed meeting women in a variety of situations.

Comments

I loved the waitresses more

Posted by Humphy (not verified) on Thursday, 24 September 2015

Great article buddy. Nice to read exciting and informative pieces from a brilliant African mind. II am from the US but i travel a lot. In Africa, I've been to Nigeria. Kenya and South Africa. I must say i love the women there, especially the waitresses at the high end restaurants i visited

African waitresses are mostly beautiful girls with kind hearts. Every time i tried hitting on one, we ended up in bed the same day. Everything kept flowing smoothly.

Africa is indeed a fertile ground for pick up artists. I'll keep going back. After reading this article i am now encouraged to roam outside my comfort zones (the restaurants).

Uh

Posted by Leroy (not verified) on Friday, 25 September 2015

Big surprise, not a lot of comments smh

appreciation

Posted by dehi (not verified) on Saturday, 26 September 2015

"niaje mtunguyaz" hello my brother in Swahili. i have been wondering if there other pick up artists in kenya like you're self.thats a well written article but i am a bit disappointed because you only focused on the foreigner perspective some of the things don't work because of culture and linguistic reasons, am also kenyan

Thank you for encouraging interracial dating

Posted by Anonymous (not verified) on Saturday, 26 September 2015

Thank you Philip for encouraging men from other continents to seduce women in Africa. It's a good thing. I think men and women from different parts of the world need to interact more. Guys need to get out of their comfort zones and stop seeking sexual or romantic relationships within their country or race alone. There is power in diversity.

Married to a foreigner

Posted by Lilian (not verified) on Monday, 28 September 2015

I am Lilian from Africa. My husband is Irish and we're very happy together. We met at an entrepreneurship summit a few years ago. This is a very good article Philip and i hope your advice can help lead to more interracial marriages too apart from the one night stands. Otherwise....great stuff. I am a big fan. It's my first time visiting this site. I popped by when i heard you were writing here. I am happy to see you spreading your wings. When you almost won the 'Best African Blogger' award last year, i knew you were going places.

Do you pay for dates with women from Africa

Posted by the tall Gentleman (not verified) on Friday, 2 October 2015

Great article and guide
However do you not pay for dates with African women?
It seems in the west its possible not to and Chase's Article on not paying makes perfect sense.
But African women seem to refuse completely to pay for dates especially in Zimbabwe (where Im from) .
Do you suggest more framing? I would get frame it as " so what are you going to buy me? " but its usually shot down before it can even take off.
What do you suggest I ( and other men) do?

BUNCH OF BULLSHIT . . . TOO COMPLICATED

Posted by D. Lange (not verified) on Sunday, 25 March 2018

I spend 8 months out of the year in African countries. Of course the women are stunning. Tell them that and how you would like to take them to dinner. Take them to a great restaurant . . . maybe of their own choosing, be yourself and attentive during dinner. Plan another daytime trip with them, invite them for a nightcap . . . invite them to stay overnight . . . and just take it from there. Main thing . . . Don't be an American Asshole. Have a little class.