Sexual Trust and Comfort Gambit: Diachronic Comfort

You need trust to get new women into bed. Many men try to build trust once, quickly, and move on. With this gambit, you’ll build deeper trust – over time.

Hey guys. Welcome back. I hope you are all doing well.

Today, I want to share a comfort gambit that utilizes listing, a technique we discussed over the past two weeks (see the rest of my series on using listing during sex talk). We talked about how to use listing as a tool for frame control and addressing potential tests you may receive from women when discussing sex. Last week, I provided examples of how to use this technique to build comfort.

I will continue with what we did last week. I will use listing as the main concept to set the frames of trust and comfort throughout the gambit.

This gambit is called the diachronic sex gambit. Do not be intimidated by the word diachronic. It simply means “through time,” and knowledge of the word is not necessary for using it.

It is an easy gambit to understand and use.

I have many versions, but today, we will focus on one that focuses on building sexual trust and comfort.

Before delving into the gambit, I’d like to expand on the analysis from last week regarding the importance of sexual trust and comfort.

I try to create hybrid gambit posts by covering theory while sharing techniques. This provides a “two in one package” so that you have both theory and tools. However, sex talk is the verbalization of a theory about male-to-female interactions, sexology, and sexual sociology. Thus, my theoretical analysis is not unwarranted. It is essential to understand what goes on behind the technique.