In seduction, there are mindsets that are helpful to a man's seductive efforts, and there are mindsets that are unhelpful to them.
Helpful mindsets can be cultivated and used. Unhelpful ones should be pruned.
Much of the time when we talk about mindsets, I focus on talking about unhelpful mindsets to prune. Why don't I talk about helpful mindsets more? Because often when you talk about helpful mindsets, men either cannot relate to them (because those specific mindsets do not resonate with them, personally) or even find them boastful (even if it isn't how you intend).
There's an interesting phenomenon though where one man's unhelpful mindset is another man's helpful one.
To get you thinking clearer about your own mentalities, I'd like to take you through an 'unhelpful vs. helpful' mindset review and give you a chance to figure out which each of your own thoughts is.