The guys there had predictably varied tastes. Some guys are very into older women. Some are fine with much older women. But some aren't.
A point I raised was that it seems to me a preference for older women is likely socialized. i.e., this is a preference acquired by men, due to influences around them.
A lot of people aren't aware of just how many of their tastes are acquired tastes. They also often aren't aware of how they acquire them.
So from whence, pray tell, do your romantic likes originate?