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11 Tips for a Magnetic Presence Attractive to Girls

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You can be attractive to girls before you even open your mouth. You do this with presence: the hypnotic, mesmerizing masculine quality.

Hey guys. Today I will discuss a vital topic, rarely discussed – namely, presence.

Most guys are so focused on what to do in an interaction with women they forget the stuff before the interaction. This forgetfulness is understandable... After all, it is hard to focus on too many things when you are new. The conversation itself seems so immediate it can be hard to focus on anything else. And yet, the phase that precedes the interaction can play a tremendous role.

I will not discuss screening in this post, even though the screening phase is part of this crucial pre-interaction stage. If you are interested in screen and approach-invitation triggering, do not worry, there are more than enough posts covering the subject:

What we will focus on here is how one can be attractive from a distance – without even opening your mouth – before even approaching a girl. And even though we kind of touched upon that in my previous article, let’s dig a bit further into actual tips and tricks you can apply today. However, my previous post does serve as a great foundation for this one (so if you have not read it, check it out: “Warm Up with Physical Momentum and Get Laid Easier”).

Let us start with a fundamental topic before we get into the juicy stuff.

Alek RolstadAbout the Author: Alek Rolstad

Alek Rolstad launched his pickup career at age 14, an early starter and seduction savant. His unique style of game focuses on “sex talk”: a way to make sex the primary topic of conversation. Sex talk lets the user excite girls rapidly, and filter for girls open to fast, raunchy, kinky one-night stands and sex. Alek plans to offer phone coaching to students of Girls Chase soon… Just as soon as he can find somewhere to hold phone calls on sex talk and threesomes where he won’t be shocking his roommates.

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Bond's picture

Hey Alek,

Superb post! That was amazingly refreshing. Loved it! On leaning into stuff, I really want to try it out. I guess that is one of many reasons James Dean was so damn cool; He just leaned into stuff every time.


Alek Rolstad's picture

Thank you.

I am glad you liked it and yes James Dean was cool for that exact reason.

BTW the trick with the eyebrow and lip was based on Marilyn Monroe!


Jess Farmer's picture

"Dress like a sexy man would"
Wow, super helpful!

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Explosive Results's picture

This article is indeed a great refresher on the fundamentals of kinetics and posture, however with a title which starts with "11 Tips" I was somewhat expecting to have the tips numbered... there seems to be far more than 11 tips here so the title is definitely selling the article short.

Chase Amante's picture


I take the blame for that. We titled Alek's article "11 tips" based on the 6 under "being relaxed" and 5 under "sexy moves". There's a lot more content though and it's not numbered per se as a series of tips.

Apologies if slightly misleading. We'll be careful to number things in numbered articles better next time.


Agent's picture


I absolutely love new body language tips that can be used right away and trigger desired reactions.
For the eye brow and lip thing, I'm having some trouble pulling it out. Do you have any picture of that sexy face move?
Also, when and in which contexts to use it?
Finally, why does it work like charm?


Alek Rolstad's picture

Hi sorry for the late reply.

Here is a pic of what I meant!

Why does it work? well first of all the eye contact communicates sexual intent while at the same time a relaxed presence - both attractive. The neck slightly up signalizes confidence - sexy too. And the lips signalizes a "readiness" to kiss - which is also hot.

All in all it communicates a confident, relaxed sexual presence - the Holy Trinity of sexyness!


Edit: More examples: http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2015/10/01/16/2CF48A6800000578-3256437-im...

Agent's picture


Thanks for the reply and the pics. One question: Marilyn has her lips parted in all pics. I find it hard to put out my lips like I'm going to kiss while having them parted. Is having parted lips mandatory to pull of the look?


Alek Rolstad's picture

You are welcome.

No it is not mandatory to part your lips. Fact is I don't do it myself.


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