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Constructing Your Sexy Vibe (and Making Girls Go Nuts)

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sexy vibeI couldn’t believe it when she told me…

She was 25 years old and had a banging hot body… one that I was just about to peal out of her sexy, tight jeans. She had a belly button piercing and fake boobs… yet here she was lying next to me, telling me she was a virgin.

Just when you think nothing’s going to surprise you anymore… well, meeting women during the day truly is Forrest’s proverbial box of chocolates.

But, at least that explained why it had taken me a while to get together with her.

Most women will sleep with a guy the first night, so long as he sets the right frame as a sexual man and creates a sexy vibe… but if she’s never been with a guy before, it may take her a bit longer to get truly comfortable.

In one of my most recent articles, on the girl who says she has a boyfriend and why it doesn’t matter, I wrote about nymphomaniacs, strippers and party girls… and how much fun they can be. Today, I’ll talk a bit about the opposite end of the spectrum… and I’ll let you in on some of the secrets of hooking up with girls who are far less wild and far less experienced.

That can be a very interesting experience in its own right… in fact, one good friend of mine and fellow dating coach specializes in virgins… he gets a kick out of being the first man in a girl’s life and teaching her the ins and outs of one of the best things life has to offer.

But why would a virgin go with a professional seducer, out of all people?

Ricardus DominoAbout the Author: Ricardus Domino

Ricardus was one of the most prolific and respected coaches in the men’s dating advice industry. He’s dated some of the planet’s most beautiful women, ranging from a Miss World contestant, to a model for Coca-Cola, to one of “Brazil’s Next Top Models.” His specialty is daytime street stops. He is most remembered for his “Are you single?” opening line. Ricardus is currently retired from the dating advice industry.


Prince's picture

Great posts man, keep it up!

I have noticed neither you or Chase have made an article on 'Instant dates' and what you are think about them. And some of your blog entries contradict each other...

e.g. Law of least effect is good, but when you apply that to texting a girl you only interacted with for 5 minutes on the street and you try to organise a date straight away in the first text or so... could be problematic?

Could you PLEASE do an in depth article on day game and flake prevention, because a lot of people say it's a numbers game... but the pros know that you have to build a really strong connection in your interactions, so instead of a numbers game it becomes something else.

Girls hand out their numbers like candy these days! And if you think about it, a girl who is approached by a confident, sexy guy etc. will give her number out because it has rarely or never happened to her and is caught up in the moment... which would/could easily lead to a flake especially with beautiful women who have many men that they could easily date from their social circle and what not.

Also I think Chase mentioned that keeping an interaction short VS long was the way to go... but then there are instant dates which supposedly reduce the flake rate for daygame. In a short time frame can you build a really solid connection? I strongly agree it is detrimental to be Mr. Funny pants, super exciting etc. when approaching. I'm really calm myself and am into the whole vibes thing too.

Honestly, it will be much appreciated if you gave your insights to what I have mentioned above in a blog entry.


Ricardus Domino's picture

Hey Prince, thanks for your question - I will address this in one of my next blog posts.


Stefan's picture

Hey could your write an article on how to be more optimistic. Lately I've started reading alot of tony robbins and meditating but I find its really hard to break through my "wall" of negativity. Especially in the early mornings, and if I don't conquer it in the morning it seems to follow me around all day.. "Lurking" over my shoulder , I find the littlest thing can send me into a violent swirl of negativty if I'm not especially careful about staying present to the moment, mabey you could give me some advice or tips on gaining a real pAssion and optimism towards life?

Socialkenny's picture

Nice article Ricardus.

Although I'm a fellow-seduction coach, I've learned a thing or 2 from this post about striking a balance between nice and bad. I usually find myself falling on the extreme of bad boy.

Bryar's picture

"If a girl suggests something that doesn't automatically lead to sex, IGNORE HER" That is some absolutely stellar advice. I thought this site was supposed to help you into relationships? Call me crazy, but aren't relationships based on a bit more than meeting a fucking?

H-Town Legend's picture

thanks for the article . For me mental game and things like that is like magic. It works. its true that your thoughts transfer to your mental game ect. You have really become a better writer. I commend you and give you a gold star.

Jimbo's picture

Your best article Ricardus.

Loner's picture

It's a pity, considering the headline, that the article says exactly nothing about that... I'm 28, and I suck so much at this that I never even had a date. I just don't have any kind of sexual vibe...

I tell girls what I’m all about… and I do it subtly.


f you can combine the masculine sexuality of a James Dean with the genuine openness and vulnerability that gets girls to tell you their darkest secrets…

How do I get either of these?

I have a good job, I have fun hobbies, social hobbies... I think I can be pretty happy with what I have. But girls? I'm at a total loss.

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