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Says She Has a Boyfriend? Here's Why It Doesn't Matter

says she has a boyfriendMy girl looked at me with a devilish smile and said: “I can’t make it on Thursday... I’m already going on a date then… with your best friend.”

She was obviously completely off her rocker.

Like most strippers, if we’re honest.

Seriously… where do I FIND these girls?

The answer, in her case, was probably not what you’d expect… I had met her at the mall, and I had picked her up during the day.

You see, one of the things about day game or transit game or any other form of “any-woman-anywhere-pickup” is that it’s like a box of chocolates… you never know what you’re going to get. One girl’s single, one says she has a boyfriend… and the next one just throws you curve balls like this.

During the day, you’ll meet the sexy librarian whom you can have a truly interesting conversation with after sex… the girl that knows what “confabulation” is and never sets foot in a club.

She is off-limits to all the guys who have never built the confidence to approach girls without alcohol… I have those ladies all to myself. (Though the more I keep blogging, the more I’ll have to share them with you! ;) )

But you also meet the crazy, nymphomaniac club girls during the day… and pole dancers that are completely insatiable sexually and that will keep waking you up all night urging you to do it a sixth time please!

I’ll tell you more about this girl in a minute, and why she told me that she was going on a date with my friend… but first, let me introduce you to this new article series, by talking about the kinds of crazy things you’ll run into when you’re out meeting women, and why you shouldn’t put much stock in what women say one way or the other about whether they have a boyfriend or not.

It doesn’t always mean what you think it doeschicks aren’t angels, you know.

Ricardus DominoAbout the Author: Ricardus Domino

Ricardus was one of the most prolific and respected coaches in the men’s dating advice industry. He’s dated some of the planet’s most beautiful women, ranging from a Miss World contestant, to a model for Coca-Cola, to one of “Brazil’s Next Top Models.” His specialty is daytime street stops. He is most remembered for his “Are you single?” opening line. Ricardus is currently retired from the dating advice industry.

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Franco's picture


I like the idea of giving some of your personal experiences with picking up women. It might give the reader some confidence and insight as to where he should take his conversation after opening.

That being said, it might help if you delve into more detail about the conversation and interaction you had with each woman. It's one thing to tell us that a woman says something as unexpected as, “I can’t make it on Thursday... I’m already going on a date then… with your best friend," but if I'm a student of the game, I'm more curious about exactly what you said that lead her to make that comment as well as how you responded to it. While reading, I felt like the entire article was leading up to the actual conversation between you and this woman, but then I was blue-balled when you never expanded on it.

I understand that you must have so many conversations with different women at this point that it is hard to recall the small details, but every bit helps!

Just my two cents. Keep up the good work =)

R!'s picture

First of all, nice topic. I've found it that girls will often act weird during the day simply because they don't know what to do when you approach them. Or things don't go "as usual".

I've been having a problem with one girl in particular, and I am usually great at this stuff, but she's been throwing me off. She's actually been using some seduction tactics that I've noticed and tried deflecting.

Anyways, she lives about 20 feet away from me in the dorms we stay in. I slept over there one night, but there was another guy and her roommate in there. She basically was all over me, and we each took steps and eventually got to me fingering her, but it was about all we could do since we didn't wanna wake the other two people. That was about 3 weeks ago.

The next night I tried to move things forward, but she was extremely resistant to anything but kissing. Later learned that this was because she was on her period and embarrassed about it, but I didn't ask what was wrong. Oh well, mistake. So I figured my chance with her was shot and wanted to forget about her. But she keeps trying to hang around my life. We'll go get lunch, we have mutual friends, and basically we are in a social circle. Now things are getting extremely awkward between us as there is this rapid spiral down where she'll chase me, I'll try moving on in bed and she'll just resist.

I guess the best thing to do would be to try and completely freeze her out, but I can't do that because of the social situation. Maybe I need an outside perspective.

Anonymous's picture

Chances are, you talk to a girl with a boyfriend, her boyfriend will have you arrested for rape, sexual assault, etc. because he's jealous of you.

AnonymousOne's picture

I want to know a perfect reaction to I have a BF shield coming from a beautiful cashier girl at a beauty shop that i go to weekly.

I want to be a gentleman about it, i dont want her to feel bad for saying it and i want to enjoy the rest of the conversation after it. as if nothing happened

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