GIRLS CHASE MONTHLY SUBSCRIPTION
• Unlimited access to GirlsChase.com
This is the tenth and final post in my series on dance floor seduction. This post will of course cover how to seal the deal. We will cover the end game phase; the phase where you make things happen.
In case you are just tuning in, here are the previous nine installments:
- Dance game foundations
- Warming up on the dance floor
- Dance floor target selection
- Opening on the dance floor
- Building attraction on the dance floor
- Physical escalation on the dance floor
- Handling her friends
- What causes resistance
- More
on handling resistance
We will not cover, however, how to escalate to sex when you are back at your place, as we already have way too many posts covering this exact topic. Secondly, we also have a lot more stuff to discuss that is relevant to dance floor seduction, which I'd rather focus on.
This post is broken into many parts. The reason for this is that we will cover many different topics. The things we will discuss, although all key to endgame, are too short to have their own posts. And lastly, this guide is getting long and it is time to sum it up.
So let's get started.
Comments
Ramesh trivedi
When will ramesh trivedi article come on this site
Re: Ramesh trivedi
Anon-
This was from our April Fool's joke for this year:
Introducing the New Girls Chase Roster
No such individual as Ramesh Trivedi ;)
-C
Clubs without dancefloor
Hi, great series.
I do have one question. How would you game in clubs that don't have dancefloors?
I currently live in a small town that has only 2 nightclubs. The first one is small and has so many tables that you would trip over them even if there were no people. Problem is that girls are always in groups with other guys and they would just slightly dance around their tables. If by some miracle they don't have guys with them, they would just sit in some corner where you literally have to go through several groups of people to get to them. Irony is that they look most approachable, just sitting there looking around or playing with their phones...
The second one is better, it's twice as big and has room for dance, it even had real dancefloor but they put tables there. Problem here is that there are no people, it's 80+% empty. There are some girls at the bar but usually they'll sit in some dark corner where you can't even see how they look because the lighting is so bad.
And yes, there are a lot more guys then girls in both clubs...
I'll be here for like a month more and could really use some advice. Thanks.
Hi, first of all, not all
Hi, first of all, not all clubs have dancefloors. In which case, I would go for a verbal approach instead. All clubs have smoking areas - if the club itself is too loud. If it is not, you can pull of verbal game anywhere.
A lot of the concepts discussed in this guide, do apply for verbal game too. Not all of course, but some, including:
-Target selection
- Spotting and forcing approach invitations
- The escalation techniques, including push and pull and mutual escalation
- It's on moments - works great when you do verba game as well.
I can't do anything about the lack of girls in your club, nor can I change your town. The problems you point out are very common in such environments. Most guys in your situations either move out, or work hard in order to save up money for travelling, or they focus on social circle pick up. Social circle game is what works best in small towns like the one you live in. We have a lot of posters here who focus on exactly that, so check them.
The amount of advice I can give you is limited because I do not live in such environments. I hope this comment is of any help though.
Alek
Making out on dancefloor
Hi Alek. Just wanted to say that this Dancefloor Series has been very informative and structured, making it easy to understand. I will definitely use some of these techniques at school this year. I think my dancefloor game has been weak because of me being drunk most times I am on the dancefloor. Alcohol can be a confidence boost, but it really inhibits your thought process and ability to use target selection.
I wanted to get your opinion on making out on the dancefloor. It is common knowledge on girlschase that this is a bad idea. I am in college and dancefloor makeouts are quite common. I wanted to see what you think and if there is any time where it should be implemented. Thanks.
-Peleus
Peleus
Thank you very much. It makes me happy hearing that, because I have spent a lot of time to put it up for you.
I have written about making out on the dancefloor here:
http://www.girlschase.com/content/ultimate-get-girls-dance-floors-guide-...
I personally do not like kissing girls on the dancefloor because it validates the girl you are interacting with a little too much. However if you do want to kiss follow the advice listed in this post.
Let me know if anything was unclear or if you need any additional help.
-Alek
No reply
Hi guys of GC,
First of all a big shoutout to all of you guys, its been 2 years since I've found this website and I honestly have to say that it changed my life. Finally decided to the the big step and actively work on getting girls as a set skill. I've always been really shy with women because of several hurtful rejections , but to cut it short, I've gotten my first number yesterday and felt pretty proud about it! But as the beginner I am, I'm in need of a little advice with my situation ....
I've been talking with a girl from my wrkplace and after at least 4 weeks I should say finally ask her for her #. The thing is we work at a supermarket and the way things are set up, I can't really deep dive with her. So sometimes we'd talk in between clients or sometimes won't even talk. I believe my sexy vibe was on point, as I've caught her several times staring at me from a far while we were working, ( she's a cashier). Anyway I was pretty subtile with my intentions because I didnt want alot of people to know, I'm a discret type of guy, so a downplayed my interactions a little bit with her in a way that silence would be the 3rd entity in our interactions. It felt okay since we were working.
She responded well to my words with her, smiling out of nowhere looking as if she knew what was my intentions with her , and I'd smile, pursing my lips back in a sexy way of course. It was like she knew I was attracted to her. I took my time with her and I believe it was my first mistake, maybe I didn't make my intentions clear I don't know. Anyway, I finally asked her for her number in a very nonchalant, sexy way. She gave it to me while she was in between serving clients. My second mistake was to not set a date before asking her her #.
Back to it, My shift was done so I took it and left, after 1 hour texted her saying when she'd be free to met up, and have a convo without the wrkplace context ... She has not replied its been 2 day now. Maybe I was too quick and aggressive in my text? I dont really care in a way, girls show me interest alot (abundance mentality) , but I'd really like to see her outside of work, she a really cute, mysterious, calm and smart girl exactly my type.
What should I do? I don't want us to be awkward the next time we see each other, also my rep at work might take a hit if she tells other females, I feel like. I know I was all over the place with my question but I'm pretty confused about what I should do at this point.
Anyway thank you guys for what you are doing for men like us, truly a blessing.
Peace
oooxvaria
Hi there. I am glad this site has been of great help to you. This is exactly the main reason for why we are still working so hard on publishing top quality articles for you guys!
Getting your first phonenumber is a huge first step, so congratulations. However keep in mind that getting a number is only the beginning.
Your first phone numbers will get you nowhere (unless you are very lucky!). How to proceed from the numbers you get is a whole new level of mastery, which is what you should focus on. I know , learning how to pick up women is HARD, but it is worth it.
So in case this goes nowhere, just remember this: it is completely normal - we have all been there.
However, one word of advice is to learn how to move on. Sometimes (especially in the beginning) you will fail - you will get numbers that gets nowhere.
In such case moving on is often the best solution - because you will not only waste a lot of precious time, which you could have used to meet new women and have fun. But your skills with women won't grow because you limit yourself to only one woman.
In addition to that, moving on can help you rebuilt attraction - "why isn't he responding?" - can make women chase you.
Moving on is often the best solution.
I could write a lot more, but I think this article covers in a better way what I am about to say.
This is my system for setting up dates. there are other systems (i.e. other posts on the matter) here at girlschase. feel free to look them up.
http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-set-date-girl-5-steps
Good luck and again, congratulation for your first number close!
-Alek
bathroom pulls
First, thanks for this entire series of posts. Dance floor game has long been a sticking point for me and this material helps a lot.
I would love a post on bathroom pulls. There's a place I go where I think that would be the best approach.
idklol
Thank you!
Noted! However I am almost done with newest article. But I can probably write a post about bathroom pulls in the near future.On the other hand, I am sure you will dig my next post!
-Alek
I second this
I'd love to know about bathroom pulls too. Logistics are hell for me atm. So this would be great.
Leave a Comment