A while back Chase wrote an article on “How to Meet Tons of Girls on Plenty of Fish”. He’s also written a couple of other articles on how to find success with online dating and online dating sites.
Needless to say, this site is definitely geared toward handling your fundamentals and process when in person with a girl. But, that being said, it is called “Girls Chase”, and there are many mediums in which you can get a pussycat to chase you.
I believe that one should always defer to in-person when dealing with women, whenever possible; however, online dating can definitely be a fine supplement to one’s game. If you read Chase’s myriad articles on the process of online dating – which he spent a lot of time tinkering with, creating profiles on, and doing tons and tons of research on – you will gain some key insights on how to jumpstart your progress and avoid a lot of common pitfalls.
And if you want to supplement your game with some online dating, then you will definitely want to know what the best websites are. So today, I’m going to outline the 6 best online dating sites and why they are on top. So let’s get to it.
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Tinder?
Great article but not sure why you left tinder out it's filled with attractive younger girls
Some perspective
Hey Colt,
First of all I love all your articles and thank you for all the good stuff you have posted on this site.
Here, I would just like to give some perspective on dating sites from a 45 yrs old, especially POF and OkCupid.
I don't like matching algorithms. I tried POF and their scientific match system has decided they will show my profile to 45 yrs old women. How stupid of them. I am still attractive to girls even in their early 20s. I am dating girls between 22 and 30 yrs old, all at the peak of their beauty. POF MeetMe feature is sending me potential matches with women between 40 and 55, which are, let's be realistic, less physically attractive to put it mildly. Because of this I initially turned away from dating sites.
Also as an expatriate worker I am a 6 figures earner, and personally I would not advertise it. It screams PROVIDER and sends the wrong message. At 45, girls are seeing you as a pre-selected provider to start with, so I really don't need more of this message. Instead I prefer sites which are purely based on fundamentals, very basic, I like your pic, you like my pic, match.
Anyway thank you for another good article!
Yours,
Seppuku
Colt, please help me with texting this girl
Hey Colt how's it going :)
I wonder if you could help me with texting a certain girl. Our story is simple - about a year ago I first texted her wishing her happy birthday and we exchanged a couple of words but that's it. 3 days ago I decided to text her again (ye right on time). So I texted her on Saturday and Sunday and today is Tuesday. In my country, as probably in most, girls almost never text first. So how long do you think I should wait before I text her back?
Keep in mind that I have never seen this girl in person and I am really into her. And how long do you think I should wait until I ask her out? (strike while the iron is hot and stuff)
Hopefully in the last year
Hopefully in the last year and a half you figured out what I'm about to say,
I'm going to guess that she is not interested.
Also, I'm going to guess that you are NOT really into her because, how can you be if you've never seen her live/in-person, and have barely talked. Now think about that and what her perspective is. She's probably not into you because she's never met and has barely spoken with you.
Pictures
You guys should do an article showing how to take good pictures.
OkCupid sucks
I am sorry to all reading this but the quality on OkCupid is by far the lowest out of all the dating sites. The site is pure garbage compared to Tinder. Have fun going way below your league.
As for the race part, even tall and handsome white guys say it sucks, the site is pure garbage.
Somewhat agree Eventually I
Somewhat agree
Eventually I started to have nightmares after browsing through those unattractive pics/profiles but maybe it's my location.
At the same time I view online dating as playing by someone else (who runs it) rules. I remember that "first message should be no less than 20 charachters" on POF. It's like they are already putting you in a position of a chaser or someone below in status.
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