Mental Models | Girls Chase

Mental Models

How Much Can You Change About Yourself?

Varoon Rajah's picture

By: Varoon Rajah

Aug 9, 2017

Some parts of ourselves, both mental and physical, are immutable. Exactly how much of ourselves (and what parts) can we actually change?

how much can you change

Most Guys Who Suck with Girls Have No Idea Why

Denton Fisher's picture

By: Denton Fisher

Jun 22, 2017

When a guy doesn’t do well with girls, usually he finds something to blame. But most of the time, what he blames is not the true culprit.

suck with girls

7 Girl-Getting Paradigms (Which One is Yours?)

Chase Amante's picture

By: Chase Amante

Jun 21, 2017

Different men approach meeting girls from wildly different paradigms. What does your paradigm say about you – and how’s it impact your success?

girl getting paradigms

If You Want to Get Good, Shut Up and Listen

Varoon Rajah's picture

By: Varoon Rajah

Jun 8, 2017

There are tons of great dating and self-improvement advice to turn yourself into a slick Casanova. But how many guys actually listen?

shut up and listen

“How Can I Get to the Sex Part?”

Chase Amante's picture

By: Chase Amante

Mar 13, 2017

If things aren’t going right, it’s easy to stress out and panic with a girl. But to succeed with her, you must remain level headed.

strategic thinking

The Beginning is the Hardest Part

Chase Amante's picture

By: Chase Amante

Jul 24, 2016

Why’s it have to be so hard to start something new? The truth is, whether it’s sports, art, business, or dating, the hardest part is at the start.

beginning is the hardest part

The Pickup Catch-22 of Ambiguous Value

Chase Amante's picture

By: Chase Amante

Jun 28, 2015

When value’s ambiguous, you’ll doubt she even wants to talk to you. Yet, you can’t know what your value to her is before you talk to her.

ambiguous value

The Seduction Triangle

Chase Amante's picture

By: Chase Amante

Jun 3, 2015

If you’re stuck making headway with girls, John’s Seduction Triangle can help you pinpoint your focus on what to target next.

seduction triangle

How to Tell Whether It’s Good Advice or Bad

Alek Rolstad's picture

By: Alek Rolstad

Apr 24, 2015

How do you know if advice you’re getting is good? Learn how to tell the difference – and what to do in the face of good-but-conflicting advice.

good advice or bad advice

The Genuine Man, Part 3: The Humble Man

Hector Castillo's picture

By: Hector Castillo

Mar 25, 2015

The genuine man tempers his inclination to arrogance with a key quality: humility. Yet how do you stay humble once having achieved power?

humble

How Experiences Shape Your Life

Ross Leon's picture

By: Ross Leon

Apr 25, 2014

The experiences you allow into your life alter the way you live your life – but when you consume too much, you do too little.

experiences shape life

How Your Lifestyle Colors Your Perception of Relationships

Chase Amante's picture

By: Chase Amante

Jan 30, 2014

How do you feel about relationships – trusting, paranoid, or nonchalant? As it turns out, the way you meet women is probably the biggest factor in how you feel about relationships.

perception of relationships

The Wrapping and the Present

Chase Amante's picture

By: Chase Amante

Dec 28, 2013

The wrapping – your and her styles – and the present – your and her substances – are two easily confused, and sometimes quite frustrating, things.

wrapping vs. present