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Do Women Only Want Sex?

Hi mate,

I just wanted to shoot you a quick message to say thanks for answering all my questions - I have your blog on my Chrome start bar now and love reading all the articles (and my game has improved a lot).

Chase AmanteAbout the Author: Chase Amante

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his Mastery Package.


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Ali's picture

Hey Chase! been following u recently and its great! you makes things easy too understand. but one question..does the media program your brain? by being more beta? thx greetings from norway.

lachstar's picture

Hey Ali,

The media doesn't really ''program'' your brain - not on purpose. Its more like the silent, underlying assumptions of the media - that women don't like sex, that men pay for dates, etc - which are held as assumptions by a lot of people who write and direct the media. This is called the ''frame'' and you cannot help accepting it when you watch.

This is why when people consume too much media they become more and more beta because they start to accept the beta frame from the media. Personally I cannot stand mass-produced media because there is nothing there I can relate to - no strong masculine figures, no man-friendly storylines, and all the relationship advice is written by women. Its terrible.

So one of the first steps towards shaking off the bullshit state of mind the media pushes on you is to stop consuming all forms of mass market media and regain your masculinity by only consuming media that is alpha-friendly. So far thats one or two TV shows, several internet sites, and a few music genres.

Best of luck!

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Ali, what's up in Norway, man! Hope the weather isn't too bad in those parts right now.

Was going to say the same thing Lach just posted, basically -- the media does indeed have effects on how you think, though it's no big conspiracy or anything like that -- rather, it's just that the music and TV shows and movies and articles you consume are reflections of the writers' views. So if the writer sucks with women -- and lots of writers do -- he's going to write from that perspective, and you'll be getting his understanding (or lack of it) about how things are (or more often, how he thinks they should be) with women implanted in your brain.

A lot of media has bad messages in it. The Spider-Man films are one I always use as an example -- horrible messages in the romance story. There's this really nice guy (Peter Parker) who's breaking his back for a girl (Mary Jane) and standing around pining away for her while other dudes (some astronaut; his best friend) shag her. Then finally, he proves how good a provider he is and he gets her. Fade to black. I loved those movies when they came out, and still enjoy them, but you have to be careful about the messages you're getting beamed into your skull.


Ali's picture

Haha! its ICE! baby ICE!, you should come to norway sometime, the women aren't bad here. thx for your response guys now i understand things a little more and keep up with your good work. Chase ur inspiring!, anyway could you tell me about your book, like the content and info about it. thx!

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Ah, yeah, kinda suspected it was! I know a cat from up around your neighborhood who said he didn't do anything when he was back up there... just too cold to go out. Then again, it was kinda like that on the East Coast of the States when I was there a month ago, buried under one blizzard after another...! I definitely want to check the Nordic countries out; Nordic women are great, I always love meeting them in my travels. Nordic people in general are always very friendly, warm folks I find.

What would you like to know about the book, Ali? It's structured as a combination how-to and knowledge dump of just everything I could think of as I was writing it that's important to pick up and seduction (organized in as structured and precise a format as I could get it). It's basically a guide on developing yourself into the kind of man women want to be with, as well as walking you through a pick up from before you meet a girl until the moment you bed her. I have some anecdotes sprinkled throughout to better illustrate some points, and include an appendix at the end with two full reports on a pair of fast pick ups I had last year to lay out how it all looks put together.

The book's actually out and available to purchase and download immediately right now at the "How to Make Girls Chase" site; I just have to finish the updates to I'm structuring before I "officially" release it, likely some time today or tomorrow. Happy to answer any other questions you have on the book, man; just let me know.


James's picture

I think that you take a lot of the confusion out of dating for a lot of men and women who each match up on the "desire for a sex partner only" front.

I did notice that you use smoother techniques in use of one particular "meaningful word." Perhaps the word, intimacy only seems more meaningful than "getting it on", because definition wise (as sex goes) they mean the same thing. Intimacy does however, have a deeper meaning than "getting it on." It also means closeness, friendship, affinity between two people, and friendship.

I see why you might use the word intimacy when trying to get a girl to chase you for sex. It simply sounds more safe in a casual sex situation, and girls dig guys that can talk smoothly. I just finished putting together a whole series of articles: How to Make My Wife Want Me for helping married men get their wives to want to have sex with them a lot and that is definitely the type of thing that works for married men too. Look at this way, less married guys out there trying to get in on your action.

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