Mental Models | Girls Chase

Mental Models

Can You Develop More Empathy? Science Suggests "Yes"

Chase Amante's picture

By: Chase Amante

Dec 17, 2013

Believe it or not, it is possible to learn how to have more empathy. Empathy’s a mental process that enables you to get into someone else’s shoes – and better understand the world.

how to have empathy

Leaving Madonna/Whore Behind: A Deprogramming

Peter Fontes's picture

By: Peter Fontes

Aug 22, 2013

Madonna/whore is a belief men have that some women are pure... and some women are dirty. But this belief impedes relationships, and stifles their sex lives, too.

madonna whore

Your Beliefs Aren't Real

Chase Amante's picture

By: Chase Amante

May 23, 2013

Just when you think you've got it all figured out... it turns out your beliefs aren't really 'real' at all.

beliefs aren't real

Events vs. Process: What Spectators Don't See

Chase Amante's picture

By: Chase Amante

Apr 7, 2013

When someone makes it big, is that an event – or another part of the process? Success isn’t luck or talent, you see; it’s simple hard work.

events vs. process

Black and White Thinking: When It's Useful vs. Harmful

Chase Amante's picture

By: Chase Amante

Mar 12, 2013

Black and white thinking is a potent tool for decision making and influencing – but it has a dark side you need to be aware of as well.

black and white thinking

Stop Being So Judgmental: It's All Actor-Observer Bias

Chase Amante's picture

By: Chase Amante

Feb 19, 2013

Actor-observer bias describes the inherent disconnect in how we think about our own actions compared to those of others all around us.

how to be non-judgmental

Your Mental Model is Flawed

Chase Amante's picture

By: Chase Amante

Jan 16, 2013

Your mental model governs how you see and interpret the world. Everyday, you run into situations you didn’t expect and aren’t prepared for.

mental model

Dating Without Sex: Why It Usually Doesn't Work

Chase Amante's picture

By: Chase Amante

Dec 17, 2012

A reader writes in asking if dating without sex is possible, and the response covers religion, romance, evolution, psychology, and more.

dating without sex

Threats and Opportunities: The Difference These Make in Seduction

Chase Amante's picture

By: Chase Amante

Dec 5, 2012

What may have been keeping you from meeting the women of your dreams is all in how you see things, from approaching to flirting to dating - as opportunities, or as threats.

threats and opportunities

Dating Tales: A Girl from the Past, a Friend Who Let Go

Ricardus Domino's picture

By: Ricardus Domino

Oct 6, 2012

A story about a simple handshake trick that can tell you how interested she is, and why you should never give up on life over girl trouble.

dating tales

Do You Like Someone? Here's How... and Why (Infographic)

Chase Amante's picture

By: Chase Amante

Sep 4, 2012

Ever wonder what’s going on in your head when you start to like someone new? In this infographic, get the full scoop – research included.

do you like someone

Change Your Mind About Dating

Chase Amante's picture

By: Chase Amante

Jul 16, 2012

Most guys approach women far too timidly and unsure. The solution, of course, is to change how you think about dating.

think about dating

Rule Makers and Rule Breakers: How Your Disposition Impacts Your Success with Women

Chase Amante's picture

By: Chase Amante

Oct 3, 2011

Rule makers and rule breakers can seem like two totally different people, but each has his own problems meeting and dating women.

rule maker