I messed up…
In a social circle where the stakes were high I failed to be
discreet. No, I didn’t go blab about what happened, but
instead, due to
too much alcohol consumed, I failed to isolate and we were noticed.
But an interesting thing happened:
Despite a couple of women from that circle seeing us and this being
the gossip of the year, my indiscretion didn’t reach the ears of
parties that could’ve blown the whole situation out of proportion and
make my life truly difficult.
Those smart ladies decided to make a better call than I did and keep
my little secret. Would you like to guess why?
Well,
Keeping the social circle healthy in general
was definitely one of
them, but one crucial piece of the puzzle was that they, consciously or
not, decided that they didn’t want me
to be kicked out of it.
You see, until that moment, despite openly being a sexual man and
with my image and actions clearly communicating that I prefer a
promiscuous lifestyle, I still acted within my code of standards that I
talked about in my last article and in
general wasn’t a social risk.
On the contrary, a sexual, attractive man who is smart about the way
he does his thing can actually be a very valuable asset in a social
circle.
In other words, my reputation saved my ass in that situation.
With this article I’d like to help you understand the benefits of
having the right reputation within a social circle and afterwards we’ll
cover how to develop your reputation as a sexual man so it works for
you, instead of against you.