Women don’t communicate like men, and most guys don’t understand that. Let’s boil down the things you should know if you want to stand out as a guy who “gets” her.
Women see the world differently than men do. My experience as a seducer has afforded me the chance to study these differences in great depth. Over time I have witnessed the sheer scale and extent of these differences and how they affect communication. But the ordinary guy is not born with this knowledge, and it is not that easy to grasp in the normal routine of life. I will break down the most significant differences and explain why communication is best done in a certain way to help achieve clarity.
Just like any other guy, I started out thinking: “Whether man or woman, the principles of communication are the same: be honest, talk directly, and expect the same from others.”
When I expected a response from women, I was surprised when women would not respond. On top of this, I expected attraction to work the same way for women as men and predicted they would want sex right away if they liked the look of a guy. So at first, I just asked girls directly if they wanted to go on a date, kiss, or come back to my place.
I can easily imagine my life if I had continued thinking this way. I would never have become capable of discussing profound topics with women and may have NEVER caught on to how to become as adept with women as I am today.
I caught on quickly through several strokes of good fortune.
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I noticed this the most with
I noticed this the most with girlfriends. They mention the events "backwards", starting with the event that happened last. Then she begins to talk about what led to that final event. Like if you hurt her, disappointed her or pissed her off, she will make a big issue out of something else that happened AFTER she began to feel whatever she is feeling. Then you work your way backwards and try to understand why the fuck she is pissed in the first place... :D
As a guy, it is the other way usually. You tell her she did something, and that was unacceptable because it disappointed you...
To me, that is exactly the way it is supposed to be. Appreciate that women are different and as indirect as they come
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