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The 4 Stages of Pickup and Seduction Development

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stages of pickup development
Most guys who discover the seduction community don’t taste the fruits of real success with women, because they get stuck. What stage are you at, and how can you progress?

For most guys starting out, learning how to approach women is about as fun as hammer fisting themselves in the nuts. But there comes a point when it goes from being terrifying and horrible to heroin-level addictive.

Many men ask me the question: “How long does it take to become good?”

There’s no direct answer. It depends on your desired outcome.

If you want to achieve a goal, it helps to know what that goal is.

Tony DeppAbout the Author: Tony Depp

Tony is one of the most veteran day game experts around. He began to pick up women in the mid-2000s, when he posted on the famed seduction forum mASF... alongside other old hands like Chase Amante and Alek Rolstad. Over the last 10 years Tony has coached hundreds of students to meet women during the day. He has two published books out on seduction: one on his journey, and one on doing awesome at day game.



Damien1's picture

Nice article Tony! I can definitely relate to the advanced level. I have a high double digit count and it's easy for me to get girls attracted and to build a connection but I feel like seduction is too much work now in a lot of cases. Most of the time I'm just too lazy to invest the effort unless the girl is prettier than what I'm used to or I have a particular good personal connection or dynamic with her (eg she's gaming me). Any tips on how to advance? Going for prettier girls motivates me but they are rarer and harder at the same time so it's pretty difficult to get practice quickly.

Gary's picture

Good insight into the different stages of learning game that men go through. I went through something similiar when I was first starting out learning game. Those first 10 approaches feel like your looking death in the eye, even though its a simple task of going up to some random girl that you probably won't ever see again. Heck, I can't even remember the first 1000 girls that I approached lol. 

Most men give up on the first stage of this journey. A lot make excuses and say game doesn't work or this or that. Those that push through the uncertainly and discomfort advance further and end up with multiple dating options and a fulfilling dating life that they never would have imagined. Funny how life works. 

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