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How Reality Pace Openers Help You Connect to and Intrigue Women

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Showing a girl that you get her and are not just another douche makes her see you as a refreshing and attractive guy. Reality pace openers get this done within seconds.

In today’s article, we’re going to discuss another powerful, versatile frame control technique. This technique will allow you to set good frames in your seductions – right from the start.

Even though techniques like this are more suited for intermediate and advanced seducers, this type of frame control is simple and easy enough to pull off so seducers at any level can use this technique and reap the benefits.

You’ll want to use this at the beginning of your interactions with women; it’s one of my favorite ways to approach. Not only does this technique enable you to start your interactions with great frames that are tailored specifically to help your seductions proceed smoothly, but it is also a very low key and innocuous way to approach women, just like situationally relevant openers.

Simply put, this is a powerful and risk-averse way to open.

Before we proceed, it’s important to note that while I’ll be sharing specific examples of how you can use this technique to approach women, it’s crucial that you understand the underlying principles first. Feel free to use the example openers word for word – they've been tested in the field with great success.

But make sure also to take in the principles and understand the concepts that make up this technique. Because once you’ve grasped them, you’ll truly see the power of this technique and you’ll be able to create more examples to use in a variety of situations.

Daniel AdebayoAbout the Author: Daniel Adebayo

Daniel Adebayo made the far trek from sunny Nigeria to frosty Canada for school. There, he leverages a strong drive for success as he applies himself to both his university studies and romantic pursuits.


Robinnyc1's picture

Daniel - this is a cool article with good tips for night game.  My question is can reality based openers be used for day game too?  If so do you have any examples?  Thanks man.

Daniel Adebayo's picture

Hi Robin, glad you enjoyed the article.

To answer your question, yes reality pace openers, can be used in day game too. I may write an article specifically for these types of day game openers in the future. It might be a long one though, because as you can imagine, each opener will need to be tailored specifically, for the day game location you're approaching in. For example, you might use one reality pace opener at a coffee shop, and a completely different one at a park, or clothing store. . .

However, once you truly understand the principles, detailed in the above article, and as you grow more experienced meeting women in various venues, you'll find yourself developing the peceptive skills, which will allow you to come up with a solid reality pace opener in any venue.

After all internalizaing frame control, and making use of your perceptive skills, is what allows you to get into the minds of attractive women. You reach a level where you can easily understand their reality, and instantly know how to frame it to suit your purposes. Without having to think about it.

Anyway, here's a couple examples for day game. This one will work in open spaces, like parks.

"You know, spring (or summer) has to be one of my favourite seasons. The sun shining, the warmth and bright blue sky. All of these things. . . make you feel energized, relaxed and even a bit excited about your day. No wonder we all tend to make great memories during this season. . ."

This one will be good for coffee shops, and cafes.

"Have you ever noticed what makes coffee shops so interesting?"

"You walk in, get your warm (or cold) drink, and as you sit in this place. You feel comfortable, because it's like you're in this personal bubble. You can look outside the window, watch the world go by, see people rushing up and down the city, heading to work and school. But you're just in your own bubble, relaxed and enjoying a break from reality."


Hope this was helpful Robin.



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