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The Journey to Become a Master Pickup Artist

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By: Tony Depp

how to master pickup seduction
Practically anyone can go from sexless to seduction mastery if they do what it takes. But what does it take? Be ready for a long journey… but one that’s worth it.

One fateful day, I was sitting with a few roommates in my living room, staring bovine-like at the dull, hypnotic glow of the television. A news program came on about pickup artists. A coach was taking a group of awkward men around to various bars and parks, forcing them to approach women. The coach said that any man, no matter who he is, can learn to seduce women with skill.

 

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I ran to my room and googled “pickup artist” while the rest of my roommates picked at their teeth and turned on the PlayStation.

I discovered a whole community that existed in forums, where people discussed PUA philosophies. I read dozens of books like Mystery Method and Double Your Dating. I watched hours of video like The Annihilation Method by Style and so many others. I felt like Harry Potter when he finally realized he didn’t have to live as a muggle anymore – there was a land where magic was real, and with that magic, he could finally get a smoking hot, little pixie to do his sexual bidding. And so, I immediately… did nothing at all.

It took me a year of studying before I decided “enough” and moved to Montreal for the sole purpose of becoming an expert in pickup. Not because I wanted to start a business or impress people on YouTube. Because I wanted to date beautiful women. I didn’t just want to be good at it – I wanted to master it. I wanted to be a Jedi with women.

I went out seven days and nights a week for almost two years. And boy, did I suck at it. It was the hardest but one of the most critical things I ever did, and I don’t regret one tiny bit of that journey – except for that time I caught molluscum from a handjob.

My first night alone at a bar in romantic Montreal. I stood there in that crowded room, surrounded by beautiful people having fun – and pretended to be on my phone.

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Yeah, I’m just waiting for my friends. That’s it. Don’t look at me.

Then, after a few more failed nights of inaction, I actually tried approaching girls. Most of them ignored me or were outright annoyed. Some held up their hands, ushering me away. Others just pretended they couldn’t hear me. It was terrible.

A few weeks later, I started getting better reactions and even a few phone numbers. Then, on my 90th night out, I finally got laid.

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BoiBoi's picture

"It can turn men into weirdos, but this usually only lasts a few years ...Guys  will receive advice about being clownish, cocky, or aggressive, and just overdo it... I built a reputation as “that guy you don’t bring to parties because he hits on everyone – badly”. But in the end, you’ll emerge from this cloud of confusion a solid, centered dude, so it’s worth it, even at the cost of your social circle or career."

Tony, a few years ago I was a socially awkward and overly emotional nice guy who and was crushed when I got rejected by my first crush. That lead me to girls chase and I became obsessed with learning about how to become a more attractive man. However now I've developed exactly the reputation that you described in the quote above—and as a uni student that puts me in a terrible position. Every since I've learned that I'm known as 'that guy', I've started to tone it down and now I try to do nothing that remotely resembles hitting on a girl. While I've learned my lesson, I'm afraid my reputation will still haunt me for the rest of college if not the rest of my life. I do have some cool friends but just as many people or more would love nothing more than to shame me in front of the whole goddamn university. Do you have any advice on how to turn a bad reputation around—not the "dangerous player who breaks hearts" reputation (that guy actually gets girls in school lmao) but the "pathetic guy who tries to hit on girls and always fails" reputation? I know I can get a girl because I've been with a girl during vacation (the only girl I've been with, as it happens) but she was not a student at my school and hence had no preconceptions about me. But at my univsersity I'm very much stuck. I would much appreciate some advice~

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Tony Depp's picture

Hi BoiBoi. 

I actually made a video about this. It might be out in a month or so. Keep check on the Youtube channel. It is called "Does pickup make you weird." 

First rule: Don't shit where you eat. 

I know you're in college and there are babes everywhere. But I highly suggest if you're just practicing to go to a mall, or a bar, where your friends aren't around and nobody knows you. It's a long road to become calibrated. 

Another thing, people don't care or remember. We have very short attention spans, and we're all more concerned about our own lives than the lives of others. They aren't thinking about you as much as you think about yourself. Let go of your emotional baggage about this and move forward. 

It's gonna be fine. Your college life isn't ruined. But it sounds like you need a lot more experience with girls before you go running around practicing your push pull on chicks from class. 

If you like a girl, instead of trying to game her, just ask her out for a coffee or a drink. Use a little bit of nice guy normal game, and save the "gamey" stuff for when you're out at a good practice location. 

SZ's picture

Hey Tony,

How do you get the mindset that this is worth it? How do you feel ok with going out 7 days a week, spending your time and money just to get better with women ?

How do you make yourself feel like you're not being a bum doing something others feel are unproductive? 

How do you not feel like a weirdo for going out all of the time alone to meet women ?

 

It's very hard for me to get this mindset because I have bigger fish to fry, but I still want to sleep with 100 of women.

My main problem is I'm not some young 18-22 year old dude who would look normal going out every single day for girls.

I would rather work on making money, the gym, fighting skills, etc. I can see maybe 3 nights a week, but 7 I doubt it also you would be going to the same spots more or less every week, maybe even more than once in a week.

Thing is I want to fuck 100s if women soon and get better with women soon.

I'm trying not make this feel as normal and productive to me as possible, so I don't feel bad about going out every day for women.

Thanks 

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Tony Depp's picture

Learning game is like going to school. How long does it take to get a degree? How much effort do you put into it? 

You want to sleep with hundreds of women but have other interests you'd like to focus on? That's fine. But unless you have a lifestyle that brings those women to you, you have to cold approach, or Tinder. What other options do you have other than moving to Asia?

I don't think every guy needs to be as extreme as I was. But getting good with girls was my #1 priority. You have to define what yours is, and act accordingly. 

Zanardi's picture

I am doing street game, which gave me a girlfriend, btw. I know it can be done, I know game and street game works,

Wanna know my biggest fear? Not improving and approaching tons of girls without any result. Not being to replicate finding another girlfriend, should I choose to.

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Tony Depp's picture

You can still practice talking to women indirectly even when you have a GF. Doesn't mean you'll cheat on her. Gotta keep your skills up!

Zanardi's picture

Of course I'll be practicing, Tony.

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