The alpha female is
the dominant girl in her group, and to get her, you’ll have to be a
little different than you will be to pick up her follower peers.
It’s been nearly three months since I wrote the first installment in this series, “Girls in Groups: How to Tell Who’s a Leader or a Follower.” I finally just sat down to write Part II: how to pick up the leader.
If you didn’t read the first part of this series, click back and give it a read. If you can’t tell the difference between leaders and followers, this article won’t do much good. We’ll talk about identifying some of the signs of leadership vs. followerdom here too, but that first article’s the real roadmap on this.
Once you’ve read that, let’s talk alpha females. First off, why would you want to pick up the leader of the group? Aren’t those usually the toughest, meanest chicks? And aren’t they often the fat or ugly ones?
Well, not necessarily on that last. And as to the rest, it’s all part of the fun.
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Speaking of dominance
Chase,
If you're mid way between the loud party guy and the strong silent type, how is it best to portray dominance? A mixture of both being loud and touchy and using facial expressions and non verbal communication?
My personality is rather in between but I still have to go on one extreme to be fully dominant, i.e. either high energy guy or low seductive one. Is there any way to combine both for the sake of dominance?
90210
Not Loud, but Not Silent Either
90210-
Sure, yeah. You don’t have to be a stereotype. Most men aren’t. I’m not super loud and wild, but nor am I somber and silent.
You basically just be a normal guy, who combines socially dominant conversation with physically dominant nonverbals and touch. Social dominance here being essentially anything that asserts your frame over the girl and the situation you and her are in (other people, etc.).
You’ve probably seen it already since you’ve been around a while, but maybe check out this article for a refresher on the “smooth” style, which isn’t loud but isn’t exactly silent, either:
“How to Be Smooth with Women (and Take More Lovers)”
Chase
During my life people assume
During my life people assume I either don't get laid at all, I get laid a little, or I get laid a lot.
I hear the former more than the later unfortunately.
What traits do I have to show to have people think I get laid a lot?
even when I am fukin a few girls at a time I get that I don't get laid at all comment.
what traits am I showing for people to assume I don't sleep with a lot of girls?
my girl named a number that was slightly higher than hers, but it was still low, why do you think that is? she says that she thinks I'm picky, but why can I sleep with more attractive women? the number was somewhat low and she assumes that I didn't sleep with tons of women and says she isn't glad I wasn't a school athlete because I would be sleeping around more or whatever. I didn't like the comment.
all through my life people assume I don't get none.
what can I do to change that and make people I assume I get laid frequently?
thanks
Signs of a Guy Who Doesn't Get Laid
SZ-
Millions of things it could be, but some stereotypical characteristics of sexually unsuccessful men are:
If you catch yourself doing any of these, and you don’t want that “he doesn’t have a lot of sex” reputation, you’ll want to target them for modification.
Chase
next artical
great peace
very looking forward for that next one about flirt but not to much....
i think it's important for various situation's, when you want to be likable with alpha girls without giving the wrong expectations...
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