Masculinity is good. But a feminine man who is still sexual and dominant offers something uniquely special women just go nuts for.
We focus heavily on becoming masculine here at Girls Chase, because it’s a problem that plagues most men reading this.
You’re probably too feminine.
To define this, allow me to define some feminine behaviors:
Meek body language: avoiding people’s personal bubbles – if something makes you feel small, it’s feminine body language (e.g., standing with legs close together)
Words that temper the assertiveness of your assertions (e.g., “It’s just this” or “I was only saying that…”)
Flamboyant gestures (e.g., rolling your eyes)
Extravagant clothing (e.g., peacocking)
On that last point, though, strangely, it’s the males of almost every species on earth that “peacock” and display the most colorful coats, feathers, or behaviors to attract women. My argument would be that males are demonstrating their feminine energy to more closely link with women.
This principle, that the feminine attracts the feminine, is the heart of this article.
For a lot of men, though not all, their problem isn’t attracting women. What I’ve noticed, upon reflection, is that I’ve never really had trouble attracting women, even absolute stunners.
What the journey in game, then, seems to be about is:
Increasing the frequency and degree of attraction I receive from stunning women (i.e., fundamentals)
Learning how to take that attraction and lead it to bed (i.e., game)
Women are, I’d guess, far more attracted to you than you think. I know this because I will go out with guys who are in every sense beginners and immediately spot women who are attracted to them. I tell them to approach, and it goes amazingly well.
The reason they don’t close is because of their game.
Therefore, when I say, for anyone intermediate or below, you’re probably too feminine, I’m saying that you probably attract women you yourself are genuinely attracted to (distinct from doggish horniness), but you lack the male aggression to close the deal. For those who already have that masculine spirit nailed down, we can actually take a journey back into the feminine energy and amplify it to amplify attraction (and also induce chasing).
Feminine behaviors will mostly help with:
Tempering your attainability
Calming your over-aggression
Encouraging women to chase
But before we begin, one note.