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Good day, beautiful people of Girls Chase! In the first article in this series, "How to Have Threesomes with Your Girlfriend", I covered three keys that will really help you get threesomes with a girlfriend:
- Your attitude towards women,
- The kind of relationship you have with your girl, and
- How to work with her feelings about the whole situation
In this follow-up, I'm going a bit more into the "technical" side of things: the do's and don'ts, the details on picking up a girl with an existing girlfriend of yours (also known as "tandem hunting"), as well as answering some of the questions you've asked me about the subject in the comments section of the first piece.
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Good stuff!
Drexel,
Good stuff! Thanks for the clarification on the aftermath situation. It's pretty much what I assumed would have to happen, but it's good to hear from experience.
I'm sure some people would like to hear more about the approach and the transition to getting a cold-approached girl home with you. So here are few questions:
1) When you state your desire for a threesome, what things are important to say? Do you mention that you and your girlfriend are looking for it? Do you point out your girlfriend across the room? Do you state your intention directly, or are you usually a bit more subtle with a phrase such as, "my girlfriend and I are looking to have a little extra 'fun' tonight... you should join us. ;)" Do you even mention that she's your girlfriend?
2) Assuming you have to leave a venue where you met the new girl, do you do it with your girlfriend AND the newly-approached girl? Or do you just grab her number and then text her how to get to your place? Or does it depend on the situation?
Thanks again for this follow-up, Drexel!
- Franco
Hey Franco! I think if you
Hey Franco! I think if you re-read the series, you'll find the answers to that first question. To recap:
1. Flirt, then state intentions. Yes, mention you have a girlfriend. This actually helps because then the potential candidate knows you to be used for fun sex only and you avoid the Provider frame if you're already taken.
2. Both ways work. Leave together if you can. If she's down but can't leave right away, go the latter route. That runs the risk of her getting cold feet though, better to pull them both when emotions are running high.
Hi Drexler,
Hi Drexler,
I hope the page is still active and I could get responsed :D (I'm always having bad feelings about it when last comment was posted do long ago)
I really enjoyed this post, yet I am - we are - still concerned. Together with my dear husband we decided that we both want to try a threesome with a girl. For a long time it was just a thought, but a few days ago it came back to us as something possibly real. Well, we hanged out with our friends in a pub - casual meeting, a lot of alcohol, talking, laughing etc.
There, we met a girl which we spent some nice time with, and which was clrearly atracted to mostly me, the female. I even managed to get her phone number.
We talked in private with my husband, he liked her too. We want to invite her to our bed, but we are afraid of many, many things. Also, we have never asked a person for date - we are first and only love to each other and never had a situation like, you know, flirting in a bar with some stranger. We are rather shy and introverts. So the more we think about even texting her, the more we freak and stress out ;-;
We have no idea how to aproach her at all. It seems so akward to even ask her for a dinner or some beer. Supposing we broke our mental obstacles and invited her. We order food or drinks, we have a short small talk, and then... Oh, we have that awkward silence, that gets more and more intense with every single attempt to break it. Haha, poor, hopeless scenario.
We are not sure if our candidate was aware that evening, that we are together. And when we - i mean this time our pack of four friends - asked for her phone, she insisted that only I can get it. So this drive yet another concern - the one that prevents us from complying with the rule "do not aproach together" or this one saying it is better for male to aproach.
What if she's a lesbian, and will not be intrested in? Of course, she was nice to each of us, but we all have now a feeling that she liked only me in a special way. It seems rude to ask directly.
Yes, then maybe it has to be me who aproaches.
We talked about it, considered this. But in the end I know I can't handle it all myself. I am also scared that she wants only me and would exclude my husband.
We feel helpless, clueless. Perhaps we will try together eventually, saying something awkward or inapropriate and scare her out. >.<
Is there any piece of advice for poor couple that can't handle asking a girl for kind of date?
How did that go for you
How did that go for you auriel? Me and my wife have been thinking about doing the same for a while and have been working twords an understanding of it, and now she's asking to have another girl over.
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