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9 Things Women Want from the Men Around Them

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What Women Like in Men
What do women want in men? The “what” is relatively simple; but in a romantic context, it’s also about what you should and shouldn’t give them as a man.

What do women want? More specifically, what do women want from men?

Most of the time when these questions are asked, you get some derivative of “Who the hell knows?” and everyone laughs.

But we’ve figured it out and have it all cataloged here at Girls Chase. We have a pretty darn good idea of what women want from a romantic partner.

We know what women want in the short-term and the long-term.

And we teach you how to become a man who can supply it all.

I’ll go over what women want in this article, but just because a woman wants something doesn’t mean you should give it to her. That shouldn’t sound too revolutionary. If you were to give everyone what they want all the time, your resources and time would drain in an instant.

You should only give women what they want so long as it aligns with your personal values and if it helps you achieve your goals.This might sound like a business framework applied to romance, and it very much is.

But while one should be kind and generous, there are limits to how much you should give if you are romantically interested in a woman. And that’s the departure-point premise of this article.

So, with that said, I'll tackle the subject from the perspective of what women want in a romantic partner, long or short term. I'll also discuss what you should and shouldn't give her, and under what circumstances.

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JW's picture

never understood fully when women told they want a man to be genuine... now i know.

well explained and direct with awesome advice 





BMontana's picture

Your article makes sense and I guess most men do most of those things you mentioned. But I will be honest, I DO NOT want to do most of those things. I don't want to provide for women, I don't want to take care of them all the time, be it emotionally, financially or whatever. Most women I have met in my life have been extremely boring and uninspiring. Don't get me wrong I love women for what they can do for me, like having sex and making me feel good but other than that, I don't want to deal with their bs and that's why I avoid relationships too.

So how can a guy in these days have fun with women without becoming a simp and beta male provider (which most men turn into, once they get in a relationship)? I have buddies who call their gf each day 3-6 times, who drive them around, give them attention, money etc. I could never do this. I like to have sex, fun and be around them but I don't really want to wake up next to her the next day and think about how to entertain her.

Is there a solution to this problem? Or am I the only man thinking like that?

Dor's picture

You are not the only man. i too don't think i owe them any resources . we could cooperate but in life ,each for his own .

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