Think women are crazy? If so, it’s probably because you’ve dated one. Fact is, beneath their seemingly emotional disarray, you’ll find a high level of rationality.
Men like to complain about how emotional and irrational women are. We even hear many of those claims in the seduction community and its neighboring communities – e.g., the Manosphere, the Red Pill community, etc.
“Women are feelz before realz.”
“Chick logic.”
Some of these guys even brand women children who are incapable of making adult decisions based on logic and reason. Here at Girls Chase, we know better.
Contents
1. Emotions Help Women Choose Partners
2. Is There More to Life Than Sex and Feelz?
Women are emotional, but not irrational. In fact, they are far more rational than you can imagine – when it comes to what’s important.
Put another way, women are guided by their emotions, but that doesn’t lead them to make as many stupid decisions as you might think. That’s the real accusation behind men calling women “irrational,” isn’t it? That they are less capable of making sound decisions?
Let’s be clear – there is some truth to the claim that women are less rational than men. Men are the leaders of our species, better equipped to make hard decisions like where to eat dinner or how to defeat an army. But when it comes to sexual selection, women are vastly more competent than men. That’s why 80% of women in history have reproduced, whereas for men, that figure is below 40%.
The emotion-based behavior of women leads them to be vastly more successful at sexual selection than men, which makes them highly rational, since sexual selection is one of the most important decisions – perhaps the most important – that any human can make.
Thus, I would argue that women are not irrational. They’re simply designed for different purposes than men and perform their purpose well because of their emotional nature.
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If it ain't broken, don't fix it
Great points, Hector. I always thought to myself that if the kind of crap women pull is so omnipresent and seems to be such a constant in history (just read Schopenhauer's descriptions of women), then it must've served them and humanity really well, and there must be a good reason for it. And when you break it down as you did, yeah, there are some good reasons for it.
So no point trying to suppress it, much less obliterate it. You just need to learn how to deal with it, if not use it to your advantage by coming out of their shenanigans as a more attractive mate. And I guess you do that by walking that right balance between giving her enough to show you care about her but still pulling and standing some ground to show strength. That seems to be one of women's greatest aphrodisiacs.
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