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Tactics Tuesdays: Imagine Games

Chase Amante

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Fun personality games you can use with women you talk to, ‘imagine games’ increase a girl’s immersion and connection – when you use them right.

There’s a class of game or gambit we can call ‘imagine games’. An imagine game is when you ask a girl to imagine something, like that she is wealthy or can travel anywhere she wants to. You then spin her answer into a cold read, which escalates the courtship forward and makes her feel like you know her very well (thus establishing some similarity).

Imagine games are similar to, but different from, other games I’ve talked about on Girls Chase before, like:

These sorts of games (imagine games, and the games above) have the added advantage of creating a bubble with a girl, where she zeroes in on you and becomes intensely focused on you, and the outside world drops away, immersing her.

(the downside of this much immersion, this fast, is that it’s difficult to sustain for long, and if you don’t bring her out of it on your own terms, the spell breaks. So, just make sure you bring her back up to the surface on your own so she feels you’re in control and it never gets awkward – you can always re-immerse her later on)

We’re going to take a quick look at ‘imagine games’ – how they work, wrong ways to use them, and right ways to use them – below.

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Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System.

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Lawliet's picture

Hey Chase,

Thanks for the quality content you've been pumping out!
So much to read and so much I need to digest. Thank you :)

I came across a weird phenomenon lately, and love to hear your opinion;)

I have 3 questions, but I've divided it up, so it's not so longwinded for you to read.

I appreciate your time for these comments!

when a girl makes direct statement of interest or pretty direct sexual flirting, such as

Her: I did something sexy today
You: What did you do?
Her: I'll show you
Her: *sits on your face*

or roleplay over text. But you get the idea.
When they talk like that in person, or over text, what is your way to approaching this?

Over text, I notice a lot of imagining (speaking of).
Like typing "actions" over texts. "Leans closer" etc. Imagining into the text or roleplay.
But i digress.

Jump on her? But what if she's over text, invite her out?
That feels a little too reactive... to her flirting. She can also do this:

You: Jump on her
Her: Hold your horses sweetheart, and maybe you'll get some tonight ;)

Then we're stuck there hung out dry :D. With her pushing her status up being the holder to sex.

When girls do this as we flirt back, it feels like we get our necks cut even though it's not necessarily direct flirting. It feels they get the last say. What are your thoughts on this? I don't know if this framing is the one we want to have either.

Additionally, Would love to hear some examples from you on girls taking the sexual aggressive role VERBALLY, and how do we not kill the tension while keeping the mating dance going? I honestly love these flirting back and forth ;)

Looking forward to hearing your thoughts.

Thanks,
Lawliet

SZ's picture

Hey Chase,

 

So I'm working on many things, I'm hitting the gym, going to uni, working on side hustles, working on skills etc.

I have an associates already so I'm educated, which I think is a plus to most women.

I have a side hustle that makes me some ok money, not a skill per se, but it's coo for now.

 

I might be busy with all of the things I'm working on, but I haven't made it to the point yet, I'm still working and have nothing to show.

So if a woman asked what I do for work, what would you say to them in my position  to keep them interested and make me sound good even though I haven't made it yet?

Thanks 

SZ's picture

Forgot to add that I'm still looking for full time work and still live at home, so bringing women back is a no. I'll have to to over their place or hotel idk.

I've been trying for a while to find full time employment and I actually stopped going out for a while and picking up girls to focus on finances and school.

So I'm now at the point where I'm tired of waiting to get my shit  together and not sleeping with women because of my insecurities and me working hard.

If I need to lie to them I well, I just don't know how to make it sound good.

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