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For Getting Girls, What You 'Cost' a Woman Is Vital

Chase Amante

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what you cost to date
Once you’ve made yourself an attractive man women want, the battle is half won. The next step: finding ways to lower your cost, to make it easy for women who want you.

Most of what men focus on when they think about doing better with women is what they have to offer women. They think about how they can sell themselves to women; what women have to gain from them. Their value. Being impressive, taking women on fun dates, getting muscular, showing off their successes, having cool stories to tell – all these are ways to better display what you have to offer to a woman.

Much of what we focus on on the attraction side for men at Girls Chase focuses on bolstering what you have to offer, too. With better fundamentals you become a man women are more and more interested in. And with better game you make it easier and easier to showcase your attractive sides and find ways to get girls to go come with you.

Yet there’s another side of the equation to any value offering. It is not just how valuable something is, but also what its costs are.

That’s ‘costs’ plural, because there are always multiple costs to anything you acquire or add to your life. Costs like:

  • Time: how much time does it take to get this thing?

  • Money: do you need to spend money to get it? If so, how much?

  • Image: are there costs to your image if you acquire this thing?

  • Motivation: do you have to exert willpower or fight inertia to get this thing?

  • Opportunity: by choosing this option, do you give up something else?

... and more.

When it comes to dating and seduction, every woman you meet faces these and other costs when she considers you.

Chase AmanteAbout the Author: Chase Amante

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System.



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Thank you Chase!
Attainability article! :) thank you for this!

Re: Knowing her type
Hey Chase, I've been rereading some comments you gave me, and you said that a girl's hair colour is usually what she's looking for. I'm guessing this only applies if she intentionally dyed it.

So if she's bottled blonde, she'll be looking for blonde.
If she's auburn blonde dyed, she'll be looking for a guy who also dyed it as well, no matter asian, white, or black.

Well, I'm not much of a fan in dying my hair. (dying scallop cells, bad pun ;))

But this got me thinking. If hair colour is an indication to what she looks for, does this apply to everything else?
I know we have some "Girl type" articles, but what are other surefire signs you've noticed tend to reveal what she looks for?

Examples like
Girl that works out in deadweights would want an arnold.
Or Skinny girls would go for skinny guys.
Short girls go for tall guys?

Maybe I can change myself to reflect the type of girls I seem to tickle my fancy.

Re: Beautiful Tall with perfect proportions
Now, speaking of types, there is this type that 99% men would fancy.
And that's having the nice face, perfect proportions and maybe tall or medium height, with long feminine hair, that exudes an air of elegant sexiness (you know, not the short girls who are giggly girls...there are some short girls that are lady-like tho).

Somehow most approach invitations I get are girls that don't fall into the category above.
Makes me wonder if my fundamentals are enough. Maybe I should workout and get muscles, more value to match them? But then there isn't much of a hierarchy is there...or at least I would like to think.

But beautiful people do have more choices and don't have to stick their necks out (Your beautiful women harder to get article)

Re: Email you sent
Finally, I've been trying to find the piece you said about attainability. "Walking head high, back straight, and only girls who are also head high and back straight will gravitate to you. Other girls may be put off by this display. Your fundamentals result in the type of girls you get"

Or on the lines of that.
Though I searched your site, your emails and couldn't find it anymore.

It makes me confused because I thought to make ourselves high status, we need to have a sexy walk.
Yet you say it turns some women away and only appeals to the top of the crop.

Forgive me if I've mistaken about you saying this.

Looking forward to hear your insights,

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