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Women are constantly putting things you say into categories. They are looking at what you say not only for content but for what you’re trying to get across too.
- “He said that because he’s trying to show off that he’s smart.”
- “He told me that because he’s trying to get me alone.”
Most guys are unaware of this layer of communication, which leads to them making clumsy mistakes. But I’m not writing this article to talk about the clumsy mistakes you might be making in conversation, I’m writing this article for you to learn how to look at conversations the same way a woman does.
Adding this layer will make it easier for you to see why women say some of the things they do. It will also help you give a woman exactly what she wants, when she wants it (which is the fastest way to get what you want). At the end of this article, I share a painful story that was the catalyst for me writing this.
Comments
Fantastic Article
William,
This is a great, great piece. Right from the open, I loved how you nailed women categorizing intentions for actions instead of just actions.
Women are so socially keen that sometimes, even at very advanced stages of romantic knowledge, we can still find ways to learn from them. Hell, they're really the best teachers of seduction I've ever had.
Good shit, man!
- Hector
Thanks man!
Your comment means a lot! Especially because I've been implementing techniques from your How to be a Freak in bed series. Keeping writing great content man!
-Peace
Great great
What an excellent article William.
You couldn't have made the article and principle any more clearer to understand, and on top of that you complemented everything with real life, meaninful examples.
What a great piece of writing, very interesting and intuitive. Well done.
Thanks!
Thanks Stefan!
I really appreciate this comment! I was actually nervous about how this article would be received, so thanks man your comment means a lot!
Greatest
What an eye opening article. The examples you give of why a girl says or does something are specific and really illuminate how nuanced things can be.
Thanks Wilson!
That was exactly what I was going for! I hope the info serves you well!
Intuitive empathy
William, absolutely brilliant article on using empathy to see a moment to moment general guide of a girls intention.
This is one of the core reasons why I visit girlschase.
Finding a diamond like this that gives you an edge and a bit of insight on something most guys miss is an amazing thing.
Thank you for writing! Good vibes to ya.
Thank bro!
I am really glad you enjoyed the post! I got a few in the pipe that I'm sure you will enjoy. Wishing you good vibes to.
Eye Opening
Your article really adds to what I am starting to get a grip on. Women tell you what they want just not directly like men. For example a new girl started at my gym last night. We had an initial hello but not much eye contact afterward. I am leaving and she is at the front desk. I say have a good evening. She said how was your work out. So instead of walking out I turn and got into a conversation with her. She didn't care about my workout. She wanted to get to know me. I realized she was opening me and I responded.
Your article makes me want to be better at understanding what women are telling me. Thanks.
Great putting it into action
I always love reading comments about you guys taking action. Good luck man!
good article
Good article. Myself, working in government, which often required discretion, intrigue, multi-layered communication, was very useful in developing this 'reading in between the lines' (although in reality you could call it the meta).
However, while we learn 'their' language, I still think women should learn 'ours'.
A girl worth dating will
Girls I keep in my life are bold and honest. That's kind of what distinguishes the ones I don't follow up on and the ones I try and keep in my life. Glad you enjoyed the post! I imagine working in government is a lot of subtle communication.
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