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Tactics Tuesdays: Locking In

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locking inI'm kicking off a new weekly blog post series today, that's going to center on brief, informative articles focused on one specific technique you can use to achieve greater success with meeting and dating women. I'm calling this new series Tactics Tuesdays.

In today's edition -- our inaugural one -- I want to have a look at the technique of locking in.

When I first stumbled upon the pick up community, I heard the term "lock in" or the instruction to "get locked in" tossed about fairly often. And to me, it sounded silly and overmuch -- another vestige of the old indirect days of picking up girls, like opinion openers and routines.

Then I moved to San Diego, and acquired a new friend and wingman who was doing outstandingly with girls, and who I noticed made it a point of his game to always lock in. It was the first time I'd seen it done effectively.

About two years later in mid-2009, I partnered Girls Chase with a talented San Diego-based date coach named Mateo (who just launched his new website, Live the Knight Life; congrats to him!), and I observed that, again, here was a guy for whom locking in was a pretty essential part of his approach with women. And like my other pal, I noticed he was having a discernibly easier time more often than not on his initial approaches.

"Well, okay," I said to myself, "this looks like something I need to stop being so closed-minded about, and start doing."

So, lock in I did.

Chase AmanteAbout the Author: Chase Amante

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System.



Alex's picture

Hey Chase,

How is it going? Not related, but what's your height if it is not a secret

Chase Amante's picture

Hey Alex,

Um, well, no, not really a secret, not so far as I know, anyway. I'm 6'00". I guess though, don't tell the people it's supposed to be a secret from ;)


Jeff's picture

Heh, figured that. I never understood why taller guys give pick up advice. They have it 1 million times easier than shorter guys (I'm 5'8ish). Like I truly mean it when I don't understand how tall guys have issues with women. I don't get it! Every good looking girl in a relationship is with a taller guy.

Honestly if you're above 5'10 and you can't get girls, you have some serious issues and I don't feel sorry for you at all. I couldn't even begin to tell you how many girls that reject me 100% based on my height.

You always get the short guy that claims that height doesn't matter but then you look at the women they hook up with and you just lol and that they're still single.

Well I've rambled enough but I honestly believe for me at least that the only reason I am unable to pull the mega hotties is because of my height. Feel free to disagree but until somebody actually shows me a short guy with a hotty taller than him, I won't believe it as I've never seen this to be the case in my entire life ;)

Anonymous's picture

Since you have this issues you clearly can't project any vibe or dominance.

Do you want proof? Look at this: http://goodlookingloser.com/forums/index.php?topic=6411.0

Look at the user makiaveli's post and you'll see in a video he is with a stunning 6' blonde. He's short 5'8" where in Danmark the avg is 5'11" and he layed over 60 women for sure(at that time 58).

I know that is a very old comment but for those who are reading the article and wonder about height, that's a proof that short guys can still get girls....

stef jaen 111 aaa's picture

just to let you know: I LOVE TACTICS TUESDAY!

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