You must know how to calibrate yourself to women to excel with
them. This means you need to know how to read her signals,
punish/reward, persist, and more.
A few weeks ago, I wrote a post titled “How to
Tell If a Guy Is a Good Seducer”
where I covered some aspects that, in my opinion, good seducers have in
common. One of those was having good calibration.
A few days later, a reader (drfeelg00d) asked the following:
Your game is indirect and based on the reaction of the girls. The
examples about calibration that you gave in this article are quite
basic (no criticism!)...
For instance, on a macro level:
How do you calibrate considering the girls overall personality
(shy, outgoing, experienced, inexperienced, young, old, artist or
career type of girl etc…) Do you always stick to the same vibe or do
you for instance add some aloofness to it, depending on the type of
On a micro level:
How do you calibrate to specific responses to you, say, in the
beginning the famous red-yellow-green scheme? Then later, if she denies
a compliance test, what if she rejects a frame set by one of your
These are very good questions indeed. In my opinion, I believe what
drfeelg00d refers to as the micro level is the most important aspect. I
will therefore discuss this first and put more emphasis on it in this
post. I will discuss what he refers to as the “macro level” in my next
This post will be pretty content-packed, and I may go a bit too
quickly for some. If that is the case, let me know in the comment
section if anything is unclear, and I will make a new post to
elaborate. A cup of coffee or tea is recommended before reading this
one. That said, I think this post is worth your time, no matter the
girl, your skill level, or where you meet the girls.
First things first: Regarding calibration. It is
one of the hardest subjects to cover, as the nuances are infinite. The
best way to become calibrated is through field experience, which
entails failing and succeeding – and sadly, most of the time failing.
But the end benefits are worth it. Being a smooth and calibrated
seducer is so key, and also something pleasurable to become!
That said, this post, in addition to my upcoming posts, will give
you clues and advice that will ease up the process. But again…
experience… going out and meeting women… there are no other ways around