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How to Have Sex with American Girls

We’ve written many posts on this site geared toward Western men on how to game and have sex with women from various regions of the world. Such as:

These are all great pieces with loads of information to sink your teeth into courting foreign beauties. But what about guys from other parts of the world who want to game here in the States, or American girls traveling the world or living abroad? What about those who want a taste of lady liberty for themselves?

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This one is for you.

Colt WilliamsAbout the Author: Colt Williams

Raised in the American Midwest, Colt Williams made a name for himself in dating with a style based on soulful poetic seductions and playful dance floor antics. His style is all about inspiring girls and drawing them into one’s world. You can book phone coaching with him here, or get a copy of his guide to getting laid on Tinder, the product of months of study and experimentation by him on the medium.


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Anonymous's picture

Good article Colt.

Something bugs me about the context in which it is written, though, and it's this: I feel that it is written largely for a white or black audience (such as given by your Englishman example). I'm an Asian fellow, specifically Chinese. And we're not exactly known for having pleasing English or our physical features. I've also hit up on other seduction forums on how to get laid in Roppogoni in Tokyo as a foreigner and the tips they give specifically apply (yes, the poster made a point to say this) to white or black guys, saying you've got it made because a lot of those girls are curious and will want to sleep with those guys even if they got no game.

Sometimes, it's hard to decipher exactly what works for what kinds of people. For me personally, I find it frustrating when a girl won't even give me the time of day but lights up as soon as someone much taller than me and just as sociable and attractive enters the picture.

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I am a 25 year old male of Jordanian heritage who was born and raised here in the USA (Missouri to be specific). From my experience here in America I have noticed that American women of minority backgrounds are very receptive to me. My experience is mostly limited to Oklahoma, Missouri, and Kansas. Now while American women of minority backgrounds (especially Black and Mexican women, Asians too these days) are very receptive to me, White American women tend to give me the cold shoulder unless they are more of the very progressive crowd types that travel a lot and are very educated.

My issue as an American with a more foreign like appearance is that I constantly hit brick walls with the kind of White women I see at bars and approach. Sometimes I have approached them only to be given the "did you just talk to me?" type of stare. In social situations I see them avoiding me at times like at parties I had back in college.

So far the White women I have been with were European (Swedish, French, Czech, Russian, Italian, German, Swiss, and Finnish). A lot of these women by my standards and the standards of my friends were highly attractive but a part of me wants that American girl with the Heather Graham looks.

Is the stigma against Arabic men this powerful throughout the USA? I do understand that Oklahoma, Kansas, and Missouri are not the most open minded areas in America but due to cost of living I am stuck here for now.

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Oh yes, I've been waiting for this!

And in the meantime, I've formed some of my own conclusions... which I'm glad to see confirmed (and expressed very succinctly) in this article. Over the past year or so I have gotten a sense that American women are quite liberal in their ways and open to seeing the man move matters forward smartly; but the flip-side is that they have an abundance of other options, such that if he misses the slightest hint, be that an approach invitation or an escalation window, he may be sunk for good.

Women from other (European-origin) cultures even when living in America seem to be more forgiving of the occasional hesitation, yet also less emancipated and consequently more skeptical of a man's overall intentions. It's quite a shocking divergence among the American and non-American women I've recently taken on dates and it holds surprisingly true.

Now what's interesting is to learn what I should be saying about myself. As a newbie I always eagerly confessed I'd been here several years and intended to remain Stateside. These days, I tend to hint that I have travel plans for overseas interviews and am by no means committed to sticking around in town; I'm even sometimes creative about the length of time I've spent here to date. Looks like this nuanced approach has Colt Williams's stamp of approval ☺


bolt's picture

Hey colt been having success with white girls at white frat parties but it seems like black girls at black fraternity parties are a different dynamic. Could you do a post on this topic?

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Great article. I've brought this up on the forum many times. As a foreigner in America, once you get all of the above into your head, it's all true. Having se with American women is almost too easy as the "foreign" aspect just gives that allure or mystery.

But I have to admit. Since I'm not "visiting"... I do find myself having some difficulty turning things into more than just sex. While it's probably easier to get sex or short term things as a foreigner, when the time or the girl comes along where you're open to trying something longer term with her... well... it's a whole other ball game. Then reality hits home about actually spending more time or exclusive with someone who's just "different".

Any thoughts/comments?

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I get laid. A lot. And the thing is, I'm a nonwhite, good looking American guy. I love white chicks, and I rack 'em up like it's nothing. Why? Because white American women LOVE good looking nonwhite men. It's the truth. We're something different. They grow up watching that tan kid from Twilight or the Rock or whoever looks exotic and white women want that in their life. They don't want the typical Ralph Lauren-wearing white guys they're surrounded by, like their dads. It's boring to them. Hate to say it ,though, there are LOTS of unattractive nonwhite men, so white women don't have too many options in this regard. There are too many ethnic looking guys, like the guys you see hanging outside Home Depot... yeah, no woman wants those guys. But those of us who do have our sh*t together, have model looks, and tight game, are exactly what white American women want. So they go for guys like me. And it's incredibly easy for me to sleep with white women.

What's interesting is that American nonwhite women, LOVE white guys. Again, it's not that they want non-Americans, it's that they want something different, and Latinas and Asian women love white American men.

Now, you guys are right, however, that being foreign can be a plus. But don't forget that there are a lot of stereotypes and creepy baggage that comes with being foreign. In fact, being all-American is actually sexy, even to fellow Americans. The culture is sexy and when you're nonwhite but born and raised in America, it's all the more sexier to white women. Same goes with being a white born and raised American when it comes to Latinas, Asians, and other nonwhites.

In my experience, what women love the most are guys who are from another area of America, with a different American culture. This is game, fellas. I'm from Boston, so when I go out to Miami or LA or the South, you better believe I come with my Boston accent and game. And I rack 'em up like it's nothing. If you're from the South, work that cowboy game on those girls who aren't from the South. Again, something different. In this case, a different American culture being used as game on American women. This is by far, in my opinion, the best angle to have when it comes to being different.

Cheers and happy hunting, fellas.

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