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Pickup vs. Seduction: Is There a Difference? (Yes!)

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pickup vs. seduction
Pickup: the art of finding a girl to take home. Seduction: the art of influencing her mind, to create desire and other urges. How do the two relate… and which is better?

On Tuesday I talked about succeeding with closed or 'impossible' girls... inspired by a tussle over the subject we had on the Boards.

There's another nuance I want to discuss before we wrap this subject up though. That is the distinction between pickup and seduction.

While related -- and while the two terms are often used interchangeably (including by me) -- they are in fact different.

Knowing what the difference between the two terms is will aid your thinking about both... as well as your ability to use each area in the most effective way.

Chase AmanteAbout the Author: Chase Amante

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System.



Witcher's picture

I think this will be a very important article that may clear a lot of confusion for all begginers/intermediates students. Even if after some time with this stuff we intuitively now that theu are two side of the same coins.

When it comes to me. I can say that I started the journey with seduction by studying materials like Swinggcat, Mystery and Robert Greene art of seduction. A wasn't getting laid at that time so for a breif time I went into that negative spiral of "pick up" doesn't work . However I have been able to make many girls in college and social circle who were not interested in me interested, yeah even the Ice Queen of the campus.

Then one day I came across your first book 'How to Make Girls Chase" when you make a clear distinction between the Romancer and the Seducer. Then it clicked, actually I was just missing the other half of the art since the material I studied focused mostly on that (or at least my undersatnding of it).

Again, knowing the actual difference with such an article may avoid the wrong tactical focus.


Christiano's picture

Hi Chase,

I'm a reader of this site for about four years. I like this article. Unfortunately, I am reading less and fewer articles here, which is a bit of a shame.
One of the reasons is what you mentioned: 70% of the articles are geared for beginners. But I think they're also a lot of guys who like me read Girlschase for years and interested in advanced pickup or seduction.
Would be great if you and your team would gather more insights for the advanced guys as well like a subcategory.
I see Girlschase as one of the essential sites for men. Not just in terms of pickup, also relationships, fashion, mindset and even career. Of course, pickup is what most people expect when landing on this site, still for all the guys like me who learned a lot from this site and want to continue to learn it would be great to see more content geared towards those guys.

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