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Tactics Tuesdays: The Heavy Pause

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Use the 'heavy pause' in the right moment, just before you escalate. It makes it EASIER to make moves with the women you want to make moves with.

A pregnant pause is a pause you make before you say something impactful, or when you wait for the other person to fill in the silence.

Yet there's a specific type of pregnant pause we can use for specific situations, right before escalation.

To differentiate this pause from the more generic pregnant pause, let's call this type of pause the 'heavy pause'.

You can use a heavy pause before any important courtship milestone:

Heavy pauses serve as a sort of 'moment of truth' when you find out whether a girl is ready for the next step or not.

They also let you build up anticipation before you take the plunge... which makes the next move you make all the sweeter.

And if you're used to speeding through your interactions, a few heavy pauses at the right places can make all the difference between a rushed courtship versus one that proceeds at a whirlwind pace yet never feels hurried to her.

Chase AmanteAbout the Author: Chase Amante

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System.

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Uriel's picture

Hi Chase,

This is a great article.

I loved seeing an explanation of something that I usually do without thinking.
Now with this, I can use it more strategically ;)

While reading this, I kept remembering a girl I dated for a long time that ended up friendzoning me and one of the things that frustrated me a lot is how she always filled the pauses.

Every time I tried to raise the tension, she would quickly start talking about something.
And she was interesting and always relevant... but pauses didn’t seem to work at all.

Why does that happens?
How can I fix it/prevent it?

Thanks!!

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