Here's an easy way to make a girl more likely to comply with a request: add an easy-to-comply second request, which makes complying with the first AUTOMATIC.
The girl you've met at the bar you're at seems like she's just about being ready to be pulled.
"Well," you say to her, "if you've had enough socializing, let's go get that nightcap." You pause a split second. "You have to promise to be a good houseguest though," you add.
She smiles, and a light tinkle of laughter ripples out of her. "I promise," she says.
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You offer her the crook of your arm, she wraps her arm through it, and out the doors of the bar you stride, into the night together.
You see what happened there?
You skipped right over asking her to decide if she's coming with you or not... one of the most nerve-wracking moments for most guys. Instead, you asked her something else -- something easier -- to which she said "yes."
And the moment she said yes to that second, easier request, her compliance with the earlier, bigger one became automatic.
How did that work?
Well, you used a secondary compliance request (that she be a good houseguest), to obtain automatic compliance with the primary request (that she come to your house).
Neat trick, right? Let's look at it a little more in-depth.
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Office seduction
Hi Chase, interesting topic as always. I was wondering if you have any tactics for meeting women in large bussines enviroment? Like when you work (not just swinging by there occasionaly when you want some new meat) in a bussines complex where there are many different offices and a lot of people (women, from students to sexy cougars :D) and your reputation could easily be tainted (player, playboy etc.). Should you hope to bump into the girls from that environment when you go out during weekends and go with "hey i saw you working at "bussines complex name" and start seduction there where are 0 to none people from work place? Or you go direct (and how much direct) when you see them during lunch or cigarette break?
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