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Double Standards Are Perfectly Okay

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Guys get told they’re guilty of horrible double standards all the time. But are double standards actually a bad thing… and are they even real?

There is a strange phenomenon in urban places. Double standards come under attack.

Not all double standards, mind you. But certain ones.

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Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System.



Mr.Rob's picture

I'm stealing that one Chase! Great healthy practical assessment as always. Thanks for the read ;)

Mr. George's picture

After reading the thought provoking 9 male identities post im curious on a few things.

-What are the most common ways that authorities make life difficult for a rebel and what are the main counterstrategies that a rebel uses to challenge authority and minimize this con?

-Who are the authorities besides police?

-Does being a rebel cause him to be viewed as a social authority assuming that the rebel is also charismatic?

An interesting theme with identities is that the outsider identities are the ones that seem most capable of bringing life satisfaction. All the other identities are trapped in the mundane. I see a clear contrast between the authenticity of a rebel (outsider) and the inauthenticity (pun intended) of the social butterfly (insider). Here is an example of what I mean

For much of the clip Jimmy is trying to tool Sebastian with subtle put downs. But Sebastian just stays true to himself by not buying into that frame and shutting down the passive agression with authenticity. In my opinion true authenticity out competes a fake attittude everytime, assuming all other traits are equal. Your thoughts?

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