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Does an ‘Outcome Independence’ Mindset Really Help Get You Girls?

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The term ‘outcome independence’ has become a popular topic in the seduction community. But the concept is flawed, as it can trip you up when it comes to getting results.

Hey, guys. Today I’m discussing a common but tough mindset – outcome independence – the idea that the seducer must become stoic, and not care about his results.

I will play the role of skeptic here, as I have a few concerns about the concept. Mainly that I believe a lot of guys are taking on the mindset but not understanding how to use it properly to get results. Instead, they’re using the mindset as more of a cop out.

Nevertheless, I believe the mindset is well-intended. If the underlying mechanism is understood, it can make you appear cool and not needy.

In this post, I’ll explain why this mindset was popularized, delve into its shortcomings, and propose an alternative that I find superior for actually getting results.

Alek RolstadAbout the Author: Alek Rolstad

Alek Rolstad launched his pickup career at age 14, an early starter and seduction savant. His unique style of game focuses on “sex talk”: a way to make sex the primary topic of conversation. Sex talk lets the user excite girls rapidly, and filter for girls open to fast, raunchy, kinky one-night stands and sex. You can learn from Alek, the master and originator of sex talk himself, by booking a 1-hour phone consultation with him.



Arrian M's picture

At the end of the day, results is the one that matters. I agree to this article. 

Game is very similar to sales in so many ways. No matter how good you present yourself, how little you pressure potential customers to buy, you need to close deals and MAKE ACTUAL SALES. Like in sales, you screen potential customers, you screen potential women to fuck. Not everyone is going to buy your product, not every girl is going to fuck you. That's okay. You follow up on potential customers without bugging them, with women, not looking needy. You need to screen people quickly so you can cut your losses early. Don't take it personally if someone doesn't want to do business with you. See it as a learning experience. Move on and continue to improve your skill set.

And you need to apply this concept in many aspects of your life. Be result oriented. You won't always get results, that's fine. Move on quickly to another girl while improving.

Basketball is also a great analogy explaining game. Shooting the ball in the basket is the equivalent of getting results. You need to make a shot before the shot clock expires (Attraction has an expiration date). And no matter how good you are in basketball, not all of your shot will go in. But the more you practice, the more your shots will go in.

Alek Rolstad's picture

Hi there. Thank you for your comment, and sorry for not responding earlier. 

I am happy you enjoyed this article. 

I also agree that there are many similare aspects to sales in pick up. I also agree with the idea of screening, although there is a lot of room for disagreements regarding how low the bar should go in regards to compliance and logistics before one should screen one out. Sometimes guy give up too easily, on girls they could have gotten. 




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